I give you a fine meal, which many people would and do appreciate. Yet you are like the little kid, who complains when I take him out to eat at a 5 star restaurant, saying it makes him sick and begging for fried foods as the remedy.
I never gave you the chance to say No. You are gonna eat it and you are gonna like it, woman.
Weakminded is running away at a fake 3d rendering of a naked person, and calling the nearest authority figure for help.
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If you’re taking a little kid out for a meal, he would most probably appreciate what he “likes”, where Mommy and Daddy usually take him.
Really? How many women would appreciate the kind of meal you extended? Well, who knows? Perhaps many would have laughed them off but people have a right to their own choices or are you so narcissistic as to believe that what is given is what is to be preferred - no matter what it is?
People sometimes have a tendency to do things without being conscious of their ulterior motives. These are sometimes “reactions” or can be called passive aggressiveness. One might intuit that that was where you were coming from - especially since there was an adamant No.
You did give the chance to say No. The No was given and you simply ignored it.
But we all do that at times under different circumstances BUT sometimes we go too far and our behavior backfires on us.
That would be your choice of words BUT perhaps the person involved thought of it as gross, raunchy and highly inappropriate. Did you take the time to reflect on what you were going to do beforehand?
Perhaps the narcissist in you feels that the only way for someone to feel about it is as you “believe” they ought to feel? I would think that by now you might have intuited otherwise.
Also, they really were not necessary as I do understand where you are coming from but words, as you have already expressed them in posts, would have been a far better way to show yourself.
Probably over 5000. When I was a kid I didn’t like tofu, soysauce and broccoli, now I do. People are too brainwashed to know what they want or don’t want.
No I didn’t.
Yes and I don’t care, people who use words like “highly inappropriate” try to dominate us with rules and regs and live in boring restrictive environments. Essentially, they try to make us unhappy and control us.
If I had already expressed them before, why do it again? That’s repetitive and flat.
Thing is, Arc, I was molested in my earlier days. I was just like you, running away. Told them to stop. Said to everyone I didn’t like it, told myself I didn’t like it. But thing is, looking back, deep down, I really did need it. You don’t know what you want or need.
We don’t always know what we want or need. This is true. But only a narcissist is going to tell me, presume to know, what I want and need, especially in a case like this.
I know some of your story but it isn’t My Story. We’re both human but we obviously think and feel differently in a lot of respects. It would be impossible that we didn’t based on our own living experiences.
People need to pay better attention to what they see, what is actually there, and not base their observations and conclusions on desire/wishful thinking/whims…
You know, I saw the movie video recently “The Danish Girl”. I thought it was both beautiful and inspiring. I don’t know if you saw it. I think that people can reach a better understanding, if they can transcend some of their biases, of what people go through in their life experiences in dealing with transgender issues believing in their heart of hearts that they clearly were not the gender which life imposed on them. As I said, it was inspiring that a human being could be so capable of not giving up on what they know or at least believed to be true and following that all the way to the end, no matter what. The movie was heartbreaking but at the same time, she lived her dream or her purpose - to the last.
That was her story.
Would you say that you are narcissistic in some ways, Arc?
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