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Hello,

I think women are screaming out to be real women, but as far as looks society’s standard seems to desire a more boyish figure. (Boyish figure with huge fake tits, that is) This desire is a strange phenomenon but has nothing to do with what women want for themselves. I love being a woman. I love having a womanly body, but most of all I love the centered calm I feel as a grown woman. Woman want to be little girls? Hardly.

Why do you feel this way, PoR? What do you base this on? Are you talking “bodies” or minds?

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LA

  1. why does a woman always want to hide her age?
  2. why does a woman feel flattered when being called a girl?
  3. in the company of your child are you a mother?

if you answer 1.No 2.No. 3.yes

then you are a very race woman who actually have a sense of responsibility of looking after you and your child. I admire the woman like Sherlock Holmes’ ‘woman’. I admire the type with compassion, love, caring, strength, like the Mothers of the Catholic church.

the secular women I find are far too materialistic, shallow (especially ethinc women who die, and I say die not (dye) their hair so they hope to change their racial trait), I mean a black woman has curly hair why get it straight and why dye it blond? don’t they want to be known as africans, is it so shameful to be who they are?

why do women nag and I have not meet one who is willing to take responsibility except the nuns. and why are intelligent women so hard to find. all I can seem to find are trashy sl*ts in mini skirts who sleeps with whoever, whatever, totally lacking motherly instincts or any racial instincts or even in rare instances spiecial instincts for that matter. I lament the loss of dignity. the whole image being portrait is that a woman is a sexual object. and I find it very offensive and distasteful. A woman, the perfect woman in my eyes is she who is loving, kind, compassionate, understanding, mature, loyal… but she has proven so far elusive.

if in the company of your father you are a girl, do you nag and act as if you are a 10 year old? or do you act as a matured daughter with love loyalty towards your father in his old age? surely, as a girl in the presence of your father you don’t expect him to hold you and feed you lollipops

possum

we may have different roles but by what principle do we act out the roles? and are there roles we ought be taking on? ought a woman adopt the role of a spoiled child? or that of a dignified mother? the choice is yours, which role you take on. I am not speaking of maturity, but that why do women feel flattered when called a girl and men offended when called a boy. you have not explained very adequately.

but let me use the occasion and ask you this indeed any female out there.

do you belong to a race? i.e white, black, asian. if yes.
will you engage in sexual intercourse with men from an alien race?
if yes, why?

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PoR… you really shouldn’t expect the female posters of this site to give you an answer they already gave you right after you insult pretty much all of them… Good luck with that.

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thank you pxc. in dignified fury, possum departs the forum.

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Why do men and women mix?

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Wow, the questions have really gone down hill.

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There is simply no reason to mix.

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Love is the reason.

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Love, just like Beauty is something irrational.

Are you sure it is love. if it is only love, why reproduce? it sounds more like lust.

oh I love goats so I am going to marry a goat.

Oh the computer is so beautify I am taking it to be my mistress.

This is what I find most tragic. People fall in love and they mix without realising they are killing themselves. it sounds more like perversion.

I mean what is love. is love worth suicide?

People say this is all love when they have nothing left to say. it is just like saying, I do it because I feel this way.

You are all crazy. Good luck having mongrells.

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Human rationality is nothing without human emotion. Human rationality is a tool used to obtain various human emotions and physical conditions.

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rationality last a life time but emotions are temporary which often lead to regret. rationally speaking, mixing is wrong. how can you tell something is wrong or not, if not by reason??? so don’t argue the rightousness of a claim by passion, to do so you have already gave up the argument.

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Something is wrong based on whether it leads to the most pleasure for everyone. Rationality serves emotion and strives to satisfy it, in the long run.

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you speak of nonsense. if you want happiness, why don’t you get on drugs. rationality dissect emotion. look, if you don’t think it is important to maintain your living link to your ancestors then you feel nothing being a disgrace so off be with you, cut your line, you don’t deserve to be in it anyway.

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Tell ya what. If I want a good, crazy, temporary high, I’ll do drugs. And if I want a fulfilling lifelong contentment and joy, I’ll fall in love. I’ll probably do both in my lifetime.

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Only an irrational person would claim that love is irrational. As I said it is a factor in the human condition.

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Well, I guess it’s because they’re in need of something that they think the other has.

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What I find most intriguing is, however, how people can remain together once they’ve mixed.

The Adlerian would say: love. But it’s actually more simple than that.
Love in its pure state is difficult, if not impossible to find anywhere else than in old plays. What man and woman share is usually one of the following: passion, physical attraction, habit, curiosity, compassion, need, interest, understanding, compromise, desire, or a mixture of them.

Now I can’t be so stupid as to impose this as a general rule and to deny love wholely between two lovers. If I said all this to a couple of newly weds, they would either not listen to me, or tell me that I am wrong - after all, they are a living example to confirm it. If I tried to explain to Tabula Rasa that love between man and woman is like turbid water (filled with small impurities that blemish its clarity), he would argue that it is the limpidest and most crystalline water you can find.

Now what can I do to that ? I can’t contradict him. I don’t have the right to do that. It’s his life.

So I’ll leave it here: love between man and woman is ok, but there are far more superior versions of love out there. Batteries not included.

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Deep love is much about regard, respect, and unconditional love having nothing to do with sex. Spiritual love, love of my dog, my very best girlfriend, and my music. Oh yes,

my music.

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The only difference between men and boys is the price of their toys.

Didn’t sound so good did it Pinnacle of … , now did it? Note, I did not resort to the first ad hom. that popped into my mind.

Try not to stereotype Pinnacle; not all women are the same and neither are men. Some are boys, some men, some women are girls and some are women.

Also, like Freud, many men were very sexist and so were women until recently. A few have evolved from this mindset. Bah, women are too emotional to be … Bah, humbug.

Ah, Christmas, the time of colds, flu, and avoiding gatherings as we are both sick. Cold Mountain is on our small, big screen, and I am posting as I found it boring. Talk about an expensive toy. Hum, next is The Last Samurai, one that I enjoyed too. Also, The Great Raid is great, and those who whine regarding Hiroshima and Nagasaki should consider watching it. Based on a true story, and most of it is based on fact like Glory and The Great Excape.

Merry Christmas to all.