Despite it being intimidating for some women and not others, I think this basic gesture of appreciation of a woman’s beauty has been stolen from man. It may still be expressed in a more covert manner but not with the abandonment, gusto and joy, since a new “blue print” was created for the male and female species. This has all been replaced with caution and restraint.
Took the pictures down; if the schizoids, really, want to, they could find her - not going to give them a boost by allowing them access to pics of her.
While I do agree that many of these PUA’s " fake it ", I don’t. I mostly like reading up on this stuff, because of the evolutionary psychology. If you read this thread thoroughly, esp. the introduction, then you would know that I’m against mere superficiality or fakeness, and that I’m all for self-mastery.
Eric: The dialetic of reason can not possibly cover incencerity. They do not appreciate Your transperency, if i were You, i would not suffer sleeplessness if i were You. The dialectics of reason detract some, yet strangely attract others. It is so apropos, yet so human, all so human.
In most ‘non fake people’ transparency is a given. Some are aware of the traps, and become weary of the cynicism which may develop on account of the accruing disenchantment.
This is more relationship advice, as opposed to PUA, but whatever:
Never reveal yourself completely to your partner - not even half of yourself. At the very most, 40 percent should be revealed, but sparingly.
If you reveal yourself completely, then your mate’s attraction for you will dwindle, real fast. A major aspect of what keeps the fire burning in relationships, is your mystique. There is a certain excitement and thrill in the pursuit of pealing away the petals of your mate. Also, make your mate earn access to your mystery, like an ancient hellenistic mystery cult. This will make your mate perceive you as more valuable and will also make her feel more valuable, as your soul is something guarded, something arcane - not freely on display for everyone, not something valueless. Your essence, your soul, should be a labyrinth - a great adventure, that you and your mate embark on together for the rest of your lives, forever discovering and exploring something new, but never reaching finality.