Reality
When people deem something as ‘real’, it is always a mistaken judgement–an error. When a person says, “this is real,” it has a specific contextual reference. They mean that what is ‘real’ is what is ‘practical’. This is an extremely common category error based on many different factors. For example, when I say my chair is ‘real’, what I mean to say (like other people) is that my chair is here and now (in space and time) and that I know it through my senses. I can touch it, see it, push it around and hear it, etc. Although I can experience the chair through my senses and conclude that it is really here and now, it is not necessarily ‘real’ by definition.
Reality is a metaphysical claim based on the objective-subjective dichotomy of experiencing life. The precise mistake being made, in our American-Christian culture, is that what is ‘real’ is being claimed to be ‘objectively real’ (i.e. made true and real through God’s Being). Every claim of what is ‘real’, or what is ‘reality’ is a metaphysical claim. As you should know, metaphysical claims are almost always impractical, which makes this category mistake interesting…
‘Reality’ is a metaphysics assumed to be true, which people then base their practicality off of, but is the metaphysics aspect needed? I say, “no.” We can experience the chair and not call it ‘real’. Why would it matter whether it is real or not if it is practical regardless?