A basic philosophy…
If you learn to find happiness without sex and drugs, then you may have power over them so that they don’t bring addiction and distractions from real life.
This philosophy applies to greed, and how the pursuit of money can monopolize your time and relationships.
Work can monopolize your mind and demeanor toward life. Affecting the need for the first part.
Relationships teach us to give as much as we get (the most common mistake is to take relationships for granted). From business to marital love, these types teach us all levels of love.
All you are is what you do in life. Hobbies build character, relationships based on ideas, and self esteem from doing something you like, and eventually succeeding.
Self worth is the worth you have with life. Obtaining spiritual feelings toward life is maintaining relationships in a physically active world.
Depression is the lack of hope. Sometimes this comes from false expectations. Yet depression can make you give up the things you hope for. So maybe it’s a natural process.
God,… with the power of the Holy Spirit, has power over all of these…
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When you build a tolerance to a drug, your body is physically adapting. Like the cigarette smoker who first feels the sedative of the smoke,… they adapt, and then need it to stop being edgy. Once you build a tolerance, you develop a chemical imbalance where your body subliminally tells you kneed the drug at all times to feel normal. The question is, can this adaptation be passed on.
If it were, people would feel more natural the first time they drink. They would have a higher tolerance the first time they drink. They would have a digestive system used to the abuse. They would have chemical imbalances in the brain mimicking mental disorders. For the most part they do,… too hard to prove though.
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The difference between sex and lust is perception. God says keep this perception as an expression of love. For sex outside of love is only limited by what you are willing to try. For if you view sex as a part of love, you can look at things you consider sexy, but not lust after them. Then you open up ground of learning to look for a mate based on love, and not the love of sex. This is the most common mistake and is what causes child molesters. For a child molester learns to love certain things about a child, and uses this for sex. This causes an addiction of the mind that can only be changed by learning better things in place.
Every time you tell a child they shouldn’t do something. You need to tell them what they should do instead. I expect everyone for the most part is the same. Seldom does will power alone help people. In relationships, the most important thing is to not put up walls,… talk things out,… and forgive. You can only get out of a relationship what you put into it. This allows people to evolve past the bodily differences of male and female, and allows them to be something that is closer to the true essence of the soul.
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I imagine that a new soul to life is the closest to perfection as we can get. After that we learn tricks to get what we want, and tricks to manipulate the body to change our perception of reality. Yet, the power of the Holy Spirit will change the soul, back to the perfect in once it came. You just have to be open minded enough to let go of worldly things. This is why God has power over pain. I think heaven is a perfect place because the Holy Spirit changes people before they enter. Yet heaven on earth is God’s promise to us.