The 21st Century. Era of drugs, casual sex and street crime…
…where?
I’m 19, and I live in the reputed heroin capital of Europe - the port town of Blyth, in the north of england. I have yet, in my 19 years, to see a hyperdermic needle or a drug addict. Sure, drug raids happen, as they do everywhere, and sure, 99% of the citizenry are on benefits, but there is no street crime.
But, and this is the real topic, where is all the casual sex? I see no casual sex. All attempts to get casual sex fail - why? All my mates are either virgins or “in relationships.”
this may seem a narrow minded opinion but here goes.
for one if your on this site your odds for casual sex drop dramatically. thinkers by nature live less than the blissfully ignorant. as a child i would often ask myself, why cant i just live without thinking, without analysing everything
my best friend is the charasmatic type, he tries to either be the center of the room or hel be grumpy, and he really gets around so to speak.
i wont call it “running the streets” but thats basically what we did. im 19 and have had many of what i call “adventures” andi have met girls from every walk of life that exists in my canadian suburb.
i have only met one girl that would come close fittting your description, she is my exact opposite.
but the loseness of the legs casually does not come easy, if she is attracted to you, then you get sex, if not then ur s.o.l the term she sometimes uses is f**k buddy"
shes is a party drinker, an all around nice person, HOT, smart, and a feminist if you ever met one. shes not attracted to looks (besides tatoos and piercings), shes attracted to whatever personalitie shes attracted to.
i havnt met any other girls that are like her so as for your casual sex, u just dont meet the right girls. but i advise you look for girls you attracted to second to the matter of if she is compatible with you (beware the chamelion)
Casual sex was a victim of the aids scare. You can get tested but who’s going to believe you. So you have to have grave, serious, ponderous sex now, or at least make like you’re serious.
If you are a nice guy who treats women “correctly” then expect none.
The types of women who are willing to have casual sex typically go for the confident, arrogant man who has no shame.
No joke, my mate is one ugly duckling, huge nose and weedy as fuck. But he has the gift of gab and gets plenty of action by insulting chicks and being cocky.
Casual sex leads to too many complexes - my pal would get all depressed about her flings, and I’d have to tell her what does she expect if guys are just using her for a shag: suffice to say she stopped hanging-out with me over a period of time - at least I didn’t have to put up with her depressed manner anymore
