Is this love and romance that I’m feeling with the sentiment of bitter sweet roses in the air?
Nigh, it is but only hormones and chemical pheromones in a euphoric dance guided by the neurological brain.
(Nothing more. )
I believe it is very funny if not nature’s joke on people that we obsses with sexual intercourse so much that we idealize it to be somthing more than the act of desiring or obtaining sex itself.
All animals beyond ourselves don’t waste any words,feelings, and conjectures but instead get down to business right away in the act of intercourse versus the “humanized” man who speaks poetry in order to woo the opposite sex which he naively idealizes to be romance where at the same time he believes that such a stance is what seperates us from all the other animals of existence rather foolishly.
I’ll tell you what love, romance,diamonds,roses, wine, poetry, flattery, dating, and other romanticisms really is…
They are merely instances of romancing the pussy for sexual intercourse. Nothing more.
They are merely instances of wooing the female to someday open her legs for the delight of the male where at the same time the female woos the male to indulge the pleasure of her own clitoris. Nothing more.
But Joker, isn’t there more to relationships then sexual intercourse?
Sure there is if you foolishly fall for the notion that there exists somthing else through that of bewildering delusion or mental fantasy.
What exactly have I said in this thread that is so sad that warrants such attention you are giving me?
I’m merely stating that there is nothing special, benign or unique about romance as it merely revolves around sexual intercourse.
I’m merely stating that sexual intercourse dominates our conception of romance, love and relationships.
Now most people would say somthing on the lines of a big duh on this issue but I would remind people that there are those who naively believe there to be more than primitive sexual appetites which is the reason why I made this thread.
But they do waste precious time and resources on the equivilent of words, feelings, jestures, etc. Plenty of mating rituals.
Which is back to the human point, I suppose the words aren’t wasted if the words themselves are being weighed into whether or not you’re a suitable partner. Much like a specific sway in some kind of mating dance.
When a guy gets a girl flowers, it’s his way of saying “Want to do it now or what?”. It’s just socially unacceptable to be direct about it, so people have to go out of their way and waste time doing such things.
so heres my question for all that dont agree with the original person who created the thread (sorry dont know who you are) the animals with the better struts that get more males to mate with them are they sluts?
I’ve been propositioned openly for sex loads of times by males and some females - perhaps I look like a horny slut, I don’t know, but it happens a lot.
You know, I was thinking about this the other day in great frustration. I know too many people who ruin their lives for the higher ideals of love. It’s quite clear their relationships are sex and it ends there, but they say that they subject themselves to the cruel behavior of their partner because they ‘love him/her and simply cannot help it.’ It’s become nothing more than a weak excuse that they feel strongly about…But then maybe I’ve been reading too much Dalrymple. I have to agree with him wholeheartedly as well.
Too much emphasis on the female reproductive organ. You make it sound like females want nothing but sex while males are those that desire to perpetuate our species. Not so much a criticism but a ‘why?’
I do agree that reproduction is our purpose, BUT given our more complex(used very very loosely mind you) minds, we’re also capable of creating something much deeper. Sex is the extent of it while we’re young I believe, save in rare cases where physical age is superseded by mental age, but with age it’s possible to find fulfillment mentally as opposed to physically. Sex is a huge part of life, but it isn’t everything when it comes to ‘love.’ Of course I think it is with ‘romance.’
EDIT:
really though…this subject seems like old hat…I’m assuming/hoping that this just a rant and not an epiphany on your part…there are bigger realizations to be had than how little meaning sex actually has. instincts are too easy.
It’s not ominous at all… Women don’t know things just as men don’t feel things. Quit confusing the two. I used to do it all the time, but now I am the wiser. It’s not “bad”. It’s not “good”. It just is.
For example, men don’t ask themselves repeatedly, “What do I feel I want in life???” We ask, “What do I know I want in life???” Simply put, men don’t care about the “feeling” of knowledge (the word-content).
Women on the other hand make a mistake by asking, “What do I know I want in life???” Women should be asking themselves, “What do I feel I want in life???” Women feel the knowledge and pursue it, while men know the knowledge and pursue it.
Same thing, same pursuit, completely different forms.
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