I know this is pretty obvious but I guess love is blind so I just need to hear it from other people. I want to say goodbye to the guy because:
He smokes and he kinda only gets aroused when I smoke (even though I dont want to smoke and am not a smoker).
He doesnt have a job and isnt working toward getting one and doesnt really want one (lives with his mom and is in his later twenties).
Those are the main reasons but…theyre good ones right?
Fist off, maybe you shouldn’t be so selfish. If your man likes it when you smoke, then you should just do it. That’s part of being a woman. Sometimes we have to suffer for the things we love.
Secondly, if he’s in his late 20’s and lives with his mom, he might be a loser. But you haven’t told us anything else, maybe he’s a grad student, so that’s why he doesn’t have a job. Or maybe he’s a musician and you don’t consider that to be a real job.
How does he get money? Does he have enough to buy you drinks?
no job. no school. no goals. no aspirations. nothing. he does happen to watch his sick aunt because he lives next door and hes got nothing else to do anyway. so they give him a lil dough for that. he doesnt ever buy me anything.
I dont smoke and im not compromising my health to turn someone on. that doesnt make me selfish and that has nothign to do with being a woman.
Yep, he should definitely dump you then.
How many times are you going to ask the same questions Ice? You already did this a while back.
Airhead.
Yeah Ice, how attractive are you? If you’re an uggo, you may have to make do with guys like that. If you’re not, then you should get rid of him and find a well dressed guy with money and ambition.
If you’re asking us then yes, you should.
you’re just looking to convince yourself to avoid the unpleasant feelings.
Do you want to stay with him out of pity?
why should you waste your time?
ok, thanks
hehe
don’t mention it 
‘There’s nothing in there but air and a jingle bell!’ - Frylock, re: Meatwad
PG? Is that you?
Well it depends on what you’re looking for in a relationship at this stage in your life. If you’re looking for a life-long partner, then this is probably not the guy. If you’re looking for someone to fuck, and nothing else, then what you said about him doesn’t really matter here.