thesis: we all start off blank slate good (without even knowing how we know it)
animal language
antithesis: we must be socialized into goodness (because love is a choice)
counter thesis: social expectations of goodness might be wrong - in which case we are socialized away from goodness (because love is a choice)
counter counter thesis: we can know the right choice without even thinking about it (know without knowing we know—like birds know nests and spiders know webs)
synthesis: love is above and beyond what we know without knowing we know (animal language default goodness)