Nice interest. I have been interested in this for years, probably since an early teen, both sides of the coin. I have only had little experience due to the lack of participants in such a subject, I did join a website once but it seemed fairly dead, all the women wanted nothing but foreplay from the men and all the men wanted just the sex from the women, nothing happened really, typical humans eh…
I recently found a adult work site that offers cheap whores willing to do just about anything, you know, they have to pay the college fees somehow, in fact, it actually lists what they are willing to do, BDSM is usually one of them, so it’s probably a better route to travel down. There’s quite a few slutty 18 year olds on there too, they would be great for being subjected to bondage and bdsm sexual abuse, tieing them up, slapping them in their face, biting them, and eating their ass!!! I feel perfectly at ease with such behavior, i guess it’s just natural for me… I never understood all that romantic love soft stuff.
As far as being dominated, well, she would have to be much older, a young girl just wouldn’t do it for me, i’m thinking, maybe around 30 - 50 is a good age for a dominatrix, she has to have that mature look, and boisterousness is a plus, and be violent enough to make me do anything. I’m also interested specific scenarios such as “mother and son”, me of course being the innocent son who makes a minor mistake on my “homework”, and well, mother is just not having that! So I obviously need to be taught a lesson, a firm one, so i can make mother happy and proud of me…in order for me not making any more mistakes on my homework, well, i will probably would have to be aggressively subjected to ass eating, face sitting, pussy worship, foot worship and the like, before we can mend our relationship, AND before dad gets home 
Other scenarios would involve, student and sexually frustrated teacher, angry bitter babysitter …you get the idea. Role play kind of seems vital to me, hmm I think some people may just higher some random mistress so they can get their needs satisfied, maybe that would be fun, especially if she is heavily experienced then she has all the control and can do whatever she think is needed.
When I was a teen I use to have BDSM fantasies with all my female school teachers, in fact, I raped all of them in my mind, over and over! great times…I love violence and sex, i think they both go hand in hand, I love doing it and having it done to me!..it’s so intimate and special! I would’nt mind moving towards cutting them up! a little bit of blood dripping, I dunno, seems kind of attractive in my mind, you know, like blood dripping down her legs on to her feet…mmmmm now that’s beautiful!