You won’t find this in handbooks like the DSM and ICD (used in Europe)
That’s because the people writing books like this are mentally ill.
The biggest problems in psychology is not taking the three structural problems of existence seriously.
1.) the pleasurable exclusive access problem. (This is the mental illness of people who marry, have sex or sexual like behavior, live affluently In a way that they’re knowingly hurting someone else’s feeling while doing it. It’s called sociopathic sadism.
2.) closely related - the negative zero sum problem.
Feeling elation when there’s a loser in any scenario
3.) not caring about the broad problem of consent violation.
That’s it.
That’s my DSM. That’s my ICD.