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I’m blue eyed and I’ve always been more attracted to brown eyed females.
But perhaps I allow this because I have a base anxiety in social situations which drowns out a lower-level dissonance arising with the sexual attraction towards a brown eyed female (a dissonance which would cause those without such a general and/or social anxiety to associate the brown-eyed as cognitively dangerous, and something to be avoided).
I may also not experience such attraction to blue-eyed girls because I associate the color of their eyes with that of my mother’s (who I prefer to distance myself from).
Then again, almost every girl I’ve ever slept with, and every girlfriend I’ve ever had and any girl I’ve ever fell in love with, have been brown-eyed, and I’ve had plenty moments of jealousy and/or suspicion.
Perhaps I am attracted to these females because I have self-destructive tendencies?
Well of course. We come from a line long of people who intercourse. Those that didn’t didn’t pass on their genes.
A man sleeps with a woman, and she has a child. It has her color eyes.
Are you proposing that a great number of men (enough to claim blue-eyed men prefer blue eyed women as a result of this) had killed these children, and then moved onto a blue-eyed female, perhaps due to new negative feelings towards the brown-eyed or merely due to chance, and had his child with her, passing on the “insecure(?)”/“thinking”/“realistic”/not-sure-what-to-call-it-but-you-get-the-point gene/cluster of genes/etc?
Do you think there were ever blue eyed men who didn’t experience this when having a brown-eyed child, but since brown eyes are dominant, the kind of man who wouldn’t have this “sleptical/suspicious” quality would rarely be born with blue eyes, after so many years of procreation?
Are you suggesting that, from the start, this was a blue-eyed quality? I don’t see how the quality would be gradually removed from the brown-eyed population; if anything, if the blue-eyed men with it killed children that came out brown eyed, they were only lessening the likelihood that their own genetic information, with that quality and (a) blue eye allele(s), will continue on after their death.
Unless blue-eyes and this quality were connected from the very start, I don’t see how blue-eyed men would be any more attracted to blue-eyed girls as brown-eyed men would be to brown-eyed girls.
I could be missing something though, can you elaborate on anything I may have misunderstood/haven’t thought about?
This is very interesting 
I’m not so sure about this. I think insemination is the reason for the sexual drive is a more accurate statement.