The only force females employ is psychological…that’s why Jews, being a feminine dogma, uses subversion and psychology to fight its enemies.
Females are attracted to power or anything that provides stable, predictable environments to carry out their reproductive role…why?
Because they are vulnerable during it…during gestation and during the fertilization process.
Ah..a female…
Nevertheless, you might be an outlier or a masculine female, or an exception to the rule.
As a rule, females are genetic filters - when indoctrinated they become memetic or ideological filters - that benefit from diversity and stable, predictable, environments.
They have sacrificed independence and physical strength, to cultivate dependence and psychological advantages.
It was a perfectly valid survival strategy that gave birth to the nuclear family. The alternative you are suggesting cannot even be conceptualized in modern society because it would involve every woman basically being a street hoe.
I have offered no alternative…I’ve only explained what is and why it is so.
There are monogamous species, but humans are not one of them. Pair boding is not natural to primates.
Marriage and monogamy is a paternalistically imposed and manmade ideals, that makes civilization possible.
Females are inclined towards superior males…which means if they had it their way 10% of men would have sex and 90% would never.
Socrates called marriage a technology.
Another factor…
Females can be physically attracted to males they find ideologically, socially, ethically repulsive, and be ideologically, ethically, socially attracted to men they find physically repulsive…why?
Because they carry genes naturally selected over tens of thousand of years in austere, natural environments, whilst being born and indoctrinated into a manmade and maintained social system that holds ideals that contradict their genetic impulses.
Mind/Body Cartesian dissonance…
This is the extent of feminine mystique and complexity.