Things Profoundly bothering me

My brother is in foster care he will get kicked out once he turns 18 this bothers me because I don’t want him to be homeless. I have to do a call about income support check up this bothers me because if they don’t think my reasons are good then I will not get welfare anymore. My mom is annoying she isn’t bothered by any of these things which I do not like she is happy Infact. My heart feels like it sank.

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He can’t live with your and your family?

Maybe he can live with me and mom it’s just a process to get him on income support so he has rent to give to the lady that me and my mom rent to.

OK, I hope something works out. Sounds like an all around tough situation.

What is something that impedes you all from gaining incomes from jobs, tho? To not depend on welfare would give you far more certainty.

Social anxiety ADHD and depression.

And you don’t want to see a psychologist. Not working and being isolated exacerbate depression and social anxiety. Work directly helps ADHD, though having a mentor for that, like a psychologist, can help a lot to make it work and to minimize the challenges.

Work and money also make you more attractive to women. Reduction in those symptoms also makes you more attractive. Work leads to contact with people, women included, where you are not in the kind of intense pressure of a date.

I’d love to say here’s the non-challenging completely appealing easy way out, poooof! and and yes, work will make things feel out of control in the beginning, but those patterns will not magically disappear without more and regular contact with people. The longer you are disconnected from other people, the more those diagnoses will seem like who and what you are. None of them need be permanent.

Does that impede you from working? I personally know people that work and have that

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If women are that shallow, then you don’t want those types of women anyway.

This is just more proof of the cult that this one is in.

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Projection is a hell of a drug

If you have judgments of what he wants - which was actually sex - you can take that up with him. As usual you assume a bunch of stuff when you jump in, especially when you have an old beef with someone. I’d explain the context of my remarks but since you’ve shown time and again that you have trouble understanding context and also lack empathy, that would be a waste of typing.

You haven’t the slightest idea what ‘proof’ means, even what your own definition of proof entails, as made clear in your various failures to prove anything, especially with your own definition of proof as the criterion. Back in the forums with a grudge you are, as expected. You should have spent more time licking your wounds.

I am sure you can find others who will take you seriously… until they stop taking your seriously. Just keep in mind I’ve seen behind the screen in your throne room.

I have no idea of what “he” wants.

I was just going on ‘your words’ alone.

If women find someone ‘attractive’ because of ‘the world’ that they do or 'the money’s that they have and/or earn, then, again, those types of “women” are very shallow human beings.

Talk about presenting ‘an assumption,’ itself.

A “great excuse” to not do what you probably cannot anyway.

Also, what context you were trying to use does not override the context that I just pointed out and used.

Again, talking about ‘proof’ from ‘the one’ who uses ‘evidence’ instead is quite funny.

Again, it lets it’s own presumptions override the facts.

What ‘wound’ are you ‘trying to’ refer to here exactly “greenfuse”?

‘trying to’ suggest what you are here is quite funny considering you believe, absolutely, that you are not in a cult.

Again it only alludes to ‘something’. it does not have the courage to present its claims clear, precise, and fully, and this is because it does not have the knowledge to back up its beliefs and claims.

Exactly.

Exactly. - you have no idea that nor how context matters.

Which is irrelevant in context. Repeating your assertion doesn’t add anything.

Oh, no anew is right :shaking_face: . I use evidence (for certain things)… like Galileo did. There are proofs also. I should use anew’s tactic: call things proofs that nevertheless by his own admission leave room for doubt - men who walked on moon or think they did example. And then, like he does, label things that perhaps might be evidence, proofs. Then insult the intelligence of anyone who can’t see the proof he doesn’t provide.

Always trying to pass the onus onto others, who you also misrepresent, as you did me here, instead of demonstrating your claims.

That was not directed at you. I considered it unlikely you’d get the cultural reference.

And now we are fully off topic. I won’t respond to what is off-topic more in this thread.

Yes it does full time anyway not so much part time that is manageable.

Your assumption in the beginning is wrong about not seeing a psychiatrist.

What does me wanting sex with women have to do with this ? I get what you’re saying that I could pay for it but I would rather not because I think it’s a waste of money I think sex should be free.

No ADHD depending on the person could be worse if they work sometimes it could help by giving them lots of things to do other times it could be overwhelming.

Great! Unless their work consists of prescribing meds and there’s little interaction with you.

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Yup, challenges. That’s life…so far.

No, I wasn’t suggesting paying for sex. I was suggesting that someone who engages in work, generally, becomes more attractive. You had complained about women not having sex with you, not choosing you for that. If you work, you get used to dealing with people. There’s a good chance it will contribute to not being as depressed. Most jobs require human contact, at least with the boss and coworkers. This can reduce social anxiety. When you approach women, or they you, they approach a more relaxed person. They also can get to know you without the pressure of a date. It increases the chances that people will be drawn to you and respond positively if you express attraction.

Once more, if this is what you really want to keep believing, then please keep on doing so.

But you keep forgetting that what you say and claim here is not relevant to the context, which I was pointing out and showing.

And remember any assertion you add or repeat, which does not follow the context, does not add anything. Or, from ‘your perspective’, does ‘this’ apply ‘to me’ only here?

See how this one keeps twisting a f distorting ‘my words’.

you still have not got it Right yet. Even after all if this time.

Lol twisting and distorting again “greenfuse” is certainly not helping you here. But, what will actually help you here is if you provide actual proofs for your claims. Now, you claim that ‘I’, {like “he” does}, labels things that “perhaps might be evidence”, proofs.

Imagine ‘trying to’ claim that another does, like they do, but then changes it to ‘perhaps’.

Stop ‘trying to’ hide behind your allusive word usage, and start providing actual proofs for your claims.

So, do ‘I’, like ‘I’ do, label things that might be ‘evidence’, ‘proof’, or not?

If you want to claim that ‘I’ do, then show some actual courage here.

Again, I have never insulted anyone, nor any such thing as ‘the intelligence if anyone’ here. But while you continue to believe that I have, you are not able to recognise and see the actual Truth here.

And, once again for your information, as you seem to not be able to comprehend, I am waiting for those who are actual curious and inquisitive.

LOL Even after I started providing the proof, you stopped responding, because you did not like where that would end up.

you are obviously one of those who hates to admit when what you believe is true is actually Wrong or False.

I am not passing any onus on to anyone here.

I am not misrepresenting you. you are just bling to what you do.

I am not sure how many times I have to inform you before you understand, I am not here to necessarily provide the proofs for my claims. As I have informed you already numerous times over, I just wait, patiently, for those who are Truly open, honest, and curious enough.

I am certainly in no rush nor in any need to prove what I already KNOW is irrefutably True, Right, Accurate, or Correct here.

Another typical response from this one when it I ows it is ‘cornered’. it has nothing else but ‘excuses’ in its attempts to deflect, “run away” and hide.