Are any of you straight people on Tinder? Hows it going for you? Had much success?
One of my friends went from a long ‘dry period’ to having 3-4 hookups a month in the last month! Surely, something like this can only be a good thing?
I remember when I was single, I used to hookup on Grindr at least 3 times a week. It was awesome. Obviously some of the sex was crap, but some was incredible, and even crap sex is better than a hand shandy, right? I realize straight people will never be quite as good as gays at being promiscuous, but at least with Tindr they are getting towards having healthier sex lives*!
*a healthy sex life = having a lot of sex. Any other definition is just self denial.
I think if I’d written ‘person’, the sentence would have made less sense, don’t you? The context makes the fact that it is a person obvious, there was no need to state it.
Why does the subject anger you? I genuinely can’t understand why it would. Are you deeply religious? Or anti casual sex for another reason?
You’ve called me names, I think it would be half decent of you to explain or justify your position. Obviously I don’t see anything cheap or sad about what my friends are doing (not me, btw, I’ve been in a monogamous relationship for over three years now).
As far as I am concerened, its a healthy behavior which benefits all parties involved. I think its important to satisfy your basic desires, and the need to have sex is one of those for men and women. I think that hookup apps are a much healthier way of doing this than getting drunk and pulling in clubs, or using prostitutes etc.
Are you opposed to casual sex in general, or is there something about the nature of app-based dating which you are opposed to? And for what reason are you making a parallel between ‘hookup’ and racism? What is it that makes the term unjust?
I am willing to have a conversation about whether dating apps are a bad thing, and hear you opinions on the matter, and discuss them. That’s all I have to say.
The fact you see what you and your friends are doing as healthy shows that I’d literally have to reverse your entire perspective in order to make sense to you, and I can’t be bothered. You want to fuck the pain away, go ahead.
No, brevel could have talked about this in a very different way and I’d still consider him self-alienated trash.
Read Brave New World - recreational drugs and sexual promiscuity are perhaps the most scientific forms of social control out there.
You don’t believe in morals, humanity, the soul, or values. Honestly, I have no hostility towards you but why should I give a fuck what you think when you yourself don’t give a fuck what you think?
And in my case…what do you think is the consequence of this alleged social control? What would I be doing if not fucking and smoking weed? How would I be better off?
I don’t care what I think? No morals values or soul? Come on buddy…if you just aren’t comfortable really engaging the, topic, don’t do stuff like make those kinds of ridiculous comments. Just say, “hey, I was half-assedly spewing horseshit and I don’t wanna backpeddle and and I don’t wanna actually flesh out the problem, so I"m just going to make silly comments”. I mean…that’d be more honest at least.