Because they are people and people just want to bang. Stop being so needy.
This paradox used to be on this list of paradoxes on the Wikipedia page of “list of paradoxes”
apparently it wasn’t politically correct!
The paradox is this: The less you want a woman, or are even remotely interested in a woman, the more she will want you! Or conversely: They more you want a woman, the less she will want you.
Now! This is true. Women have almost all the choices of partners, they don’t have to compete for male partners… since males HAVE to compete, the women who don’t have to compete see a male who’s not interested in her as extraordinary!! FINALLY!!! a woman feels like she actually has to compete !!! (which they never do!!, but that’s not the point)… women are most sexually attracted to gay men for this reason.
Likewise, the brain of a gay man is almost exactly like the brain of a heterosexual female (they both lust after men!). Gay men can fuck any other gay man (no challenge at all), just like women lust after gay men, gay men consider heterosexual men their greatest conquest - a challenge - like heterosexual women and gay men, a gay man sees a heterosexual man as his only challenge.
Heterosexual men are unique to all the sexual orientations —. Because they not only will fuck any woman that moves, they always have a challenge!!
You see, gay men, lesbian women and heterosexual women have no real challenge. Heterosexual men ALWAYS have a challenge!!! This sets heterosexual men apart.
Anyways, that’s a long answer to a short question
I wonder why that is?
Maybe because ilp has not completely passed the mirror image stage, and jumped prematurely into the paradoxical question :
Is it the politics, (of experience ) , of may it be reversely, the experience of politics that should determine how to confront a person. Course nowadays, even finding a suitable gender oriented bathroom can cause indecision.
A decisive gender neutrality demands a mysterious initial approach: what you usually get is what you see, and who cares if the person can’t prepare well enough against the discovery that can’t hide
After all, that will be unimportant down the line, doubt usually comes well prepared.
The great philosopher Snoop Dogg once said, “never love no hos”.