I so often hear from girls that guys don’t understand them, and there’s the whole running joke of “What women really mean: Yes=No, No=No, Fine=No” and all that kind of crap. So in my quest for truth, I have come to this barrier and I’d like any help you’re willing to give me. A few questions about your gender:
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I often see in movies or on tv shows, or in Myspace bulletins**, or wherever, this idea of a perfect romantic love, that seems unbreakable and eternal, but even though so many girls seem to like that idea, when a guy really likes them that way they either “just want to be friends” or they don’t trust him and think he’s just out for sex. Why would you reject the fairytale love if you like it so much?
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Related: I know girls who watch those kind of movies and post those stupid bulletins, but at the same time act like (or explicitly say) they don’t believe that kind of love really exists. This seems contradictory.
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This has nothing to do with love but… high heeled shoes. I have never met a single woman who thought high heels were comfortable, even remotely. Why would you wear them? Why not get some practical woman designer to invent fashionable dress-up shoes that don’t murder your feet all night?
More questions will come as I think of them. I have about 4 billion questions that I would like to hear answers to, (even though I of course already have answers of my own that you would probably disagree with), but I can’t think of most of those questions right now. NOTE TO OTHER GUYS: You probably have the same questions as me. If you can think of any of them post them too.
**Such as: “Find the guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you… The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that’s her.'â€