Toxic Memories

[Ierrellus]

How can we forgive when we cannot forget?

[Ed3]

I can forgive others - eventually.
Forgiving myself is much harder.

Ed

[Ierrellus]

@Ed3

I can forgive others - eventually.
Forgiving myself is much harder.

Ed

Thanks, Ed, for your post. Yes. That is about the hardest type of forgiveness— not for what was done to me, but why I allowed that to happen.

[Duality]

@Ierrellus

How can we forgive when we cannot forget?

Sometimes, you cant!

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[Ierrellus]

According to the 12 Step programs, forgiveness of others includes forgiveness of self.

[turtle]

@Ierrellus

According to the 12 Step programs, forgiveness of others includes forgiveness of self.

ier where are you going with this

[Ierrellus]

@turtle

@Ierrellus

According to the 12 Step programs, forgiveness of others includes forgiveness of self.

ier where are you going with this

Wherever it goes. So far the posts are right on target. Did I get your opinion? I was fucked over by a best friend and a lover who decided to get together. That was 20 years ago. But it is today in my dreams.