Well – if I can’t do anything to fix the situation that is bumming me out ==>
watch a funny movie (Jim Carrey always works)
take a hot bubble bath
go sit alone with caffein and nicotine (I’m smoking again, since late last night – I quit for two whole days, the withdrawls weren’t too bad – but… I just like it too much to stay ‘quit’.) [ oh, and by the way, don’t get addicted to caffein and nicotine – I’m not suggesting you self-medicate ]
sleep (you’ve got that one down)
watch the news (not always recommended… can make things worse)
see if there’s an interesting topic in ILP with which to distract oneself
read one of a million unfinished books on reading list
go out to coffee
turn the music up really loud and dance like mad
go for a walk and check out how the wild life is doing, see if any wild flowers are growing, marvel at the surrounding mountains
call sister, parents, or best friend and get updates from them (venting to them doesn’t help depression)
Do a Google on whatever topic one is interested in at the moment. [ last time I did that, it was on ionic, covalent, and polar-covalent bonds, hehe… somethin’ to do with pythagorus and stuff… I’m still interested but I had to put it down… ]
In short: do something (anything) to switch your thought-process away from dwelling on depressing stuff. Think about (DO) something else.
And… you can always write your thoughts down /before/ you walk away from them… so it doesn’t feel like you’re neglecting something that will blow up if you don’t deal with it.
[ edit: it does help to vent to the old man, if he’s not the reason I’m bummed out. Also, playing with my kids helps alot. ]