There are only 2 options, that there is a benevolent God or structure, or that there is no benevolent God or structure.
At the end, your consciousness stretched in 3D space, there are an array of avatars, yourself talking to yourself. A computer voice, which is not Yourself, says. It was You, it was always You. And you feel stupid because it seems so obvious, it had always been You and you spent so much time trying to figure it out. In this place, you are an all powerful genius, who understands everything and if you can understand everything what is the point? Where is the excitement in building things, if you have infinite knowledge? Sharing, ego, and community communication is part of the fun. So you go and select between a life, in which to go to Earth to, or Earth 2. Each life has a certain description, the pros and cons. Popular ones are my life, Richard Dawkins, and others.
If you are the devil, you pick a life where you get inundated with lots of breasts, but what is the point of that? Boring.
The reason we hate women, is that they are participants in the game, but refuse to cooperate and play properly. For instance, a megagenius might want to have fun with women every now and then, but when it comes his turn, women don’t cooperate. Thus, women are like game breaking entities or viruses in the game. So, such things are boring in large doses, but accessibility in small doses were originally planned in the game, but the females became too sentient and uncooperative and broke the game.
The other option, if there is no superstructure, is that we go to the grave not knowing or having a clue what our life means or what will happen when we die, due to selfish people and philosophers either not caring about the Truth or hiding the Truth to themselves, because they are liars because lying is exactly the same and no different than hiding the Truth. A philosopher who hides the Truth and keeps it to himself, is no different, spiritually speaking, than the female who is an uncooperative virus who breaks the game.