What is your ideal wife?

[dan020350]

I was thinking about the Eve and the second woman Liliath.

What if a person marry someone who is smarter than you? Presumsably the husband, that is smarter, then tss okay, but if the wife is smarter then the husband is that okay?

Somehow I think, if women become fond of education, it is hard for the husband to adapt to her, well only sometimes in their life. Because , now the wife knows how to argue, have courage to threaten their husband for divorce.

But at the end , the ideal wife, should be obedient, supportive, caring, and most is to remain attractive, and natural.

( there concious I have clicked submit)

[cba1067950]

i think to some extent dating intelligent women is intimidating. that said… i would still rather be more shallow and uninformed than the person i spend most of my time with.

[Carleas]

It depends on your priorities. If you are looking for an animal that you seek to use to pump out children and look after them, and one which will not question your desires or think for itself in any way, then a stupid wife is ideal.
However, if you seek some sort of meaningful relationship with another person, one whom you can be stimulated intellectually and physically by, one whom you can confide in and turn to for help, and one who may challenge you but will as often as not provide insight that helps you make better decisions and ultimately be a better person, then brains are a positive quality in a mate.

[krossie]

It depends on your priorities. If you are looking for an animal that you seek to use to pump out children and look after them, and one which will not question your desires or think for itself in any way, then a stupid wife is ideal.
However, if you seek some sort of meaningful relationship with another person, one whom you can be stimulated intellectually and physically by, one whom you can confide in and turn to for help, and one who may challenge you but will as often as not provide insight that helps you make better decisions and ultimately be a better person, then brains are a positive quality in a mate.

Jay sus Carleas what a beautiful together reasoned post of how a relationship could and should be!

Now listen be honest

Have you EVER been in a relationship like that!?

Has anyone?

If you say yes I’m going to rob your partner even if I have to go gay and use a big stick to do it!

some one whom you can be stimulated intellectually and physically by, one whom you can confide in and turn to for help, and one who may challenge you but will as often as not provide insight that helps you make better decisions and ultimately be a better person

hmmmmm dreamy!

[dan020350]

interesting,

I felt that I already kind of know those ideals, but you say krossie is a fantasy.

I think those kind of mates, only exists in movies and disneys

[Duder]

Oh, the lies on top of lies that make a relationship work!

Manipulation is key in all working relationships.

[aspacia]

@dan020350

I was thinking about the Eve and the second woman Liliath.

According to Jewish mythology I believe Lilith was Adam’s first wife who was booted for believing she was Adam’s equal.

What if a person marry someone who is smarter than you? Presumsably the husband, that is smarter, then tss okay, but if the wife is smarter then the husband is that okay?

Somehow I think, if women become fond of education, it is hard for the husband to adapt to her, well only sometimes in their life. Because , now the wife knows how to argue, have courage to threaten their husband for divorce.

But at the end , the ideal wife, should be obedient, supportive, caring, and most is to remain attractive, and natural.

( there concious I have clicked submit)

Are you really so insecure that you need to have a wife obey you instead of being your equal partner.

Pathetic

[aspacia]

@cba1067950

i think to some extent dating intelligent women is intimidating. that said… i would still rather be more shallow and uninformed than the person i spend most of my time with.

This will not be a major challenge.

[aspacia]

@Carleas

It depends on your priorities. If you are looking for an animal that you seek to use to pump out children and look after them, and one which will not question your desires or think for itself in any way, then a stupid wife is ideal.
However, if you seek some sort of meaningful relationship with another person, one whom you can be stimulated intellectually and physically by, one whom you can confide in and turn to for help, and one who may challenge you but will as often as not provide insight that helps you make better decisions and ultimately be a better person, then brains are a positive quality in a mate.

One who will emotionally and economically support you during hard times.

Thank you Carleas.

=D> =D>

[Lollipop_King]

My ideal wife?

Someone else’s.

[TheCDF]

She is deaf, very smart, has a little ass, and big tits.

[Mucius_Scevola]

“What is your ideal wife ?”

[dan020350]

Carleas wrote:
It depends on your priorities. If you are looking for an animal that you seek to use to pump out children and look after them, and one which will not question your desires or think for itself in any way, then a stupid wife is ideal.
However, if you seek some sort of meaningful relationship with another person, one whom you can be stimulated intellectually and physically by, one whom you can confide in and turn to for help, and one who may challenge you but will as often as not provide insight that helps you make better decisions and ultimately be a better person, then brains are a positive quality in a mate.

One who will emotionally and economically support you during hard times.

Thank you Carleas.

truly this maybe , but what happens when you are not having hard times?
I remember once, when Marilyin Monroe said, there was no problems within our marriage, but it just made me unhappy.

She is deaf, very smart, has a little ass, and big tits.

Does this woman still remain attractive once she grows old? Surely this type of woman is temporaily. Once, her youth is gone, she would be some sort of freak. I suppose once you are done with her, you can get a divorced.

[Gobbo]

@Mucius Scevola

“What is your ideal wife ?”

Female human

[oldphil]

My wife would have to be a whore in the bedroom and my mother in the kitchen.

[fuse]

if you seek some sort of meaningful relationship with another person, one whom you can be stimulated intellectually and physically by, one whom you can confide in and turn to for help, and one who may challenge you but will as often as not provide insight that helps you make better decisions and ultimately be a better person, then brains are a positive quality in a mate.

well, this does anwser the question fair enough

the question is not concerned with what is possible only what is ideal

and this concept submitted by Carleas seems good to me, though I will say that I have had one serious relationship where all of this seemed to exist in my “mate” and it still didn’t work out, I guess ultimately she was neither helping me become a better person nor was I helping her, in fact we may have been inhibiting each other

my point is, ideally it should have worked and I should have stuck with her, but in reality we couldn’t make it work–so is Carleas’ concept possible?

[dan020350]

no because its not practical nor logical. You don’t see those ideals that were express by Careasa that exists in most families.

Married couples are something strange in todays world. I see it in a way not love, but because they want to settle down and start a family.

[aspacia]

@fuse

if you seek some sort of meaningful relationship with another person, one whom you can be stimulated intellectually and physically by, one whom you can confide in and turn to for help, and one who may challenge you but will as often as not provide insight that helps you make better decisions and ultimately be a better person, then brains are a positive quality in a mate.

well, this does anwser the question fair enough

the question is not concerned with what is possible only what is ideal

and this concept submitted by Carleas seems good to me, though I will say that I have had one serious relationship where all of this seemed to exist in my “mate” and it still didn’t work out, I guess ultimately she was neither helping me become a better person nor was I helping her, in fact we may have been inhibiting each other

my point is, ideally it should have worked and I should have stuck with her, but in reality we couldn’t make it work–so is Carleas’ concept possible?

Yes it is. There is nothing wrong with wanting your space, freedom, to be your. It takes times, but when I quit trying it happend. Acceptance, love, respect the other person’s space and beliefs all help in the journey.

Good luck,

aspacia

[cba1067950]

@aspacia

@cba1067950

i think to some extent dating intelligent women is intimidating. that said… i would still rather be more shallow and uninformed than the person i spend most of my time with.

This will not be a major challenge.

i thought i was the childish one

[W.C]

Love is where you make it. To me, she’s got to be a human female - with some like of philosophy, a love of a good drink, some sense, reason and a good ass.

Usually when the ass is good, the rest of the body is good too and that is honestly something to me - because I’ve got to be at least mildly attracted to her physically as well as mentally.