I don’t understand why it should be so hard I’m alive and good looking and full of good intentions and very easy going but I don’t even flirt with anyone I don’t know anyone who does it seems really strange cause I’m out there but it seems like everyone else is dead and ahhh just ignore Me.
obdshawn
lol I suppose that that is as good a criteria as any. But as they say, anything worth it, is worth going after.
And just 'being alive" is simply not enough. You have to actually be alive and show it.
First, I would lose the cigarette. It isn’t becoming. 
Second, what are your intentions towards a girl you first meet, I mean after you get the wanting to meet her out of the way and the meeting her out of the way.
Third, are you really THAT easy going? I have my doubts about that one. But I may be wrong.
Why not flirt a little? There’s nothing wrong with it. You can simply think of it as a way to get a girl’s attention - just don’t overdue it. Be like my cat Yoda who comes over to me and flirts a bit lol. I could call it that. No, on second thought don’t do that. He comes over to me, looks up at me with those eyes of his, looks so sad, meows, meows, meows, then tries to touch my hand with his paw…oh so gingerly…as if checking to see if I’m real. I suppose even cats have their doubts.
You might not want to do all of that.
Just get her attention, draw in her eyes, and smile at her. Say hi - if there is any chemistry at all, you might get to meet her. If she’s not interested and you will know it, unless she’s a bit, and you might see that too - but if she’s not interested - let it alone.
There are many things “out there” which never get noticed by people. Many of us are just not that observant and don’t really know what it is they are looking at, they don’t really see it for what it is.
If you stop projecting, they may come alive for you. 
After all I just wrote here? You’ve got to be kidding me. Too late!
Is this the spam that MagsJ already warned you about again or is this something else?
Arcturus, I think you might have gotten trolled and he doesn’t even care about the subject of his own thread and he’s just here to spam… maybe…
Yea, a spammer
Lol that part about the cat though, was funny. xD
Of course, I did notice that but he has still been here as a poster, hasn’t he? I recognize his face.
Your spending flirting time spamming here instead, that’s why.
Each infraction will earn you a warning leading up to being permanently banned… you will be sorely missed
What about letting love do the pursuing. Hunting for a date is just sex, why not be human and a friend first. Worked for my husband and I. We just loved each other as dear friends then mates. Even at our angriest at each other our love for each other is there and never leaves.
So do you want sex or love or a loving life?