When a guy is just not that into a girl and he treats her bad…does that mean that when he meets a girl that he is realllllly into that he will treat her really good? Is that the whole point? I mean all these “jerk asshole” guys that I call assholes, is it just that they werent into me and that they will treat a girl that they are really into really really nice?
People, including guys, will change over time. It is part of nature. A guy at 17 or 18 years of age might simply be looking for/appreciate different things at that age than what he will appreciate at 32 years of age. Our bodies age. You get to Viagara age and you put less value on tit size and begin (finally) to look for substance. At a younger age guys are bombarded with a different rate of hormones than later in life. These hormones modify how we think. When you get to my age your penis has run out of enough energy that your head, the one above your shoulders, now run the bussiness with much more caution.
So, that jerk today will be a good husband and father down the line…when it is time, when his body is ready for it. Don’t think of him so much as a jerk, but as someone who has yet to mature. Until he does, he has a slim chance at becoming a good guy for some other girl. Of course, “good” is a point of view and the same attitudes that him a jerk to you will seem ideal to the next girl. Girls love “bad boys”. And of course it all rest on the maternal instinct of woman to “educate” bad boys, to domesticate them and roll with pride at the thought of “helping” him become a “better man”.
Girls who get dumped like that, seem pretty weak to me. My ex was like that, a weak person. I didn’t really respect her, even though I loved her. She had fear of abandoment issues, because of her father leaving her when she was a young child.
Girls from broken homes, and I assume PhilosophyGirl is one, are sexually unattractive because they are emotionally unstable, or perhaps just unappealing, boring personalities. As omar mentioned, sometimes even the free sex becomes more of a CHORE than anything else, and the male will prefer solitude to debasing himself in the company of a girl who quite frankly requires more energy to be around than she creates.
Good women are inspiring and strong minded. I haven’t met a woman like that before, EVER.
Hi PG 
I was wondering how you were just the other day - I am afraid that Seepingin is right, that men are attracted to/in awe of confident assertive women, and that doesn’t mean rude obnoxious women, but a woman that can put them in their place (and boy do some guys need that) but such a woman has to WANT to put a guy in his place i.e. be attracted to him/want a relationship with him.