Lets say there are two girls, one who is not very loyal, but she is still unique… so unique that you cant comprehend what it is about her you love, but you know the love is there.
The other girl isnt as unique but she seems like the ideal girl for you. Shes nice, passonite, caring, and outgoing. You cant find anything about her you dont like. You know youy should love her, and you want to love her, but you still love the first girl.
Who should you love, the girl that you couldnt see yourself without or the girl you COULD see youreself with?
I think it’s possible to love two people at the same time…but i guess when deciding what you want out of life, you’d have to ask yourself what you want out of life. Do you want someone who is really neat, but will most likely cheat on you? Or someone who is great, a little boring, but with her you know you have a secure future?
Personally I think that there comes a point when the uniqueness and exciting aspect becomes annoying (thank god I haven’t yet reached that stage!) …mostly what I mean by that is…eventually you have to grow up—and settle down for the most part. …Unless you never want to get tied down.
Pick the girl who will pick you back. You don’t really like the other girl you are just useing her as a defense mechanism because your afriad the “loyal” girl might regect you.
We pick relationships that are sure to fail all the time, that is that hidden element you like about this girl.
That being said I have no idea who you are or what the situation really is. I could be completely wrong, but this is my educated guess.