Guys could just spurt their semen like having a wee
do guys need to have an orgasm to make them interested in sex
if there was no orgasam would men then not want to screw
but some guys get of on the power -they hold back the orgasam just to enjoy the power over the women
some men get of on the pain they inflict while screwing the anus more than the orgasam
so how do these guy fit your evolutionary views for orgasam
so is the infliction of pain important for a guy to enjoy screwing
i mean the more she thrashes and groans moans screams-all imitations of pain -the more he enjoys screwing
children when they catch mum and dad screw think mum is in pain by her look and actions and groans
I think what you say makes sense (in evolutionary sort of way), but I also think that a normal guy would go soft if he realized that he was inflicting “real” and unwelcome pain on a woman. As far as groaning and power is concerned, there is a difference with the presence of a psychological element. Perhaps long time ago, it was as you describe, but when human awareness and ego gets involved, I think it adds another “obstacle” to be conquered - the other’s mind. So, in both senses a man would have a power over a woman, except, in one she would be psychologically rejecting his power and in another, she would be accepting it. A little point most rape-advocates seem to miss.
Whatever fetishes, tastes, or preferences one has, they´re all performed to maximise pleasure. Orgasm is the end, but the longer you delay it, the better the orgasm. Hence a new aversion to premature ejaculation in contrast to animals (the animal that can cum quickest has more chance of multiplying). Their sex is perfunctory - ours is pretty much the opposite.
Like the experience of intimacy.
That is simply the forefront idea, behind that lays fruitfully many others.
I, for instance, enjoy the process leading up to the orgasm much more fervently than the orgasm itself.
Not solely the physical experience, but what the physical creates in the mental and emotional areas of it.
yeah good point when your actually having the orgasm your not really thinking of anything. But just before it is when the actually emotions and the experience of the intmacy are most intense.