i was reviving a friendship with an old guy friend through e-mails and i was quite enjoying it until he stopped responding. why do men do this, must sex be involved to get a thoughtful letter or call from a man?
…maybe you just asked him what he “thought of bi-racial people”…
Maybe he forgot his password.
Maybe he sobered up.
Maybe he got bored of your ‘I hate myself and want to die’ personality…
Maybe…
While we’re on the subject, why do women insist on emailing ten times a day with ten sentences individually when once with a paragraph would suffice?
I dont like to email because its much more personal to chat over msn or the phone. Maybie the fault lies in youre reliance on youre beloved “email”.
Because they’re stupid?
Wow, PG was just severly owned by all those responses. Nice work people.
=D>
As always…
I don’t think that we’ll ever tire of that image
Yes.
rofl
PG,
You don’t need sex to talk to a guy. You need sex for them to keep talking to you.
I’m the opposite, if a girl can’t stimulate me in conversation long enough for me to be able to seduce her then the relationship will go nowhere…
I’m sure you’ll say something like ‘I always end up seducing them’
but let’s be honest here, if you can’t seduce them/have sex
then you’re gone.
Wait… we’re talking about relationships here?
Woman and men tend to use communication differently. Men share information to aid in decision making. Like a soldier reporting to his commander. Women communicate to reinforce social bonds. They aren’t looking for any kind of result or outcome from their sharing. There is no goal other than to strengthen connections. So men parse a message differently. They are looking for problems to solve. If a communication contains no problem related information then they see no reason for any follow-up. To make matters worse women resent being treated as if they were a problem that needed solving. Whereas a woman who give a man suitable problems for him to solve is very good for him.
I’m sure you’ll say something like ‘I always end up seducing them’
but let’s be honest here, if you can’t seduce them/have sex
then you’re gone.
My point was that seduction for me is primarily conversational. Quite literally if a girl bores me in conversation then I can’t put up with her for long enough for any physical dealings to develop.
I don’t always end up seducing them, I have my standards…
So do the girls
xanderman,
I laughed my ass off at that post!
This whole site is about men worrying about social roles and reinforcing each other’s beliefs. It’s my opinion that men need this to feel important. That’s why there are no women here in any number.
If I had to guess…
you bored him to death.
Just my two cents.