Love is not exclusive. Yet, I will continue:
One is awareness.
One is the filter by which all awareness is sifted.
One is the composition of all influences.
Other is a distinction made by one.
Yet, the other composes one.
The distinction is made in response to the degree of awareness.
One has direct access to X’s thoughts, X’s senses, X’s memories.
One does not have direct access to Y’s […]
Thus, one is more X than Y.
One relies on X.
To neglect X, is to burn the bridge to Y.
To burn a bridge to Y, undermines Y.
Love encourages one to respect the bridge between X and Y.
To love Y before X, is to abuse Y.
Ought one abuse Y, especially if one loves Y?
Surely not.
Yet, if one requires to burn the bridge to Y, one ought not demand Y to rebuild that bridge.
One ought endure the pain of said burned bridge, until one can endure constructing that bridge again.
Why ought one love oneself first?
Because it is the most honest reflection of love - the sincerest act of love.
To burden oneself, to hurt oneself, in order to give the purest form of love.
An assertion without evidence. Yet, I’ll continue:
This would be the case if we assume the feedback is coming externally, and one lacks internal integrity. Or vice versa.
Meaning - methods to validate information to a sufficient standard.
If we assume external or internal integrity, then narcissism will be resisted by said integrity, then it’s a question of which force is more powerful.
Objectivity
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James,
u dum