I see what you’re saying - ie, i said i didnt play games!
I don’t - i used ‘the chase’ to describe the time when you are getting to know someone. You can’t wait to kiss them for the first time, so the anticipation is intense. I used ‘the chase’ because alot of people view it as such…
…but they’re all part of the same process, Griz - the game is a natural thing that humans partake in to find a suitable mate.
I enjoy the chase too, but if the end result doesn’t benefit the male: does that mean we are evil and we played him? No, it means his attempt was not successful.
Getting to know someone does not equate to a game! I know what the others are talking about with the game playing, and i’m sure you do too.
I think what the dudes are saying here that if a woman has ‘led him on’ as so many do (prick teases), to think that he might be in for a chance to date her, then that is unfair. We can’t expect men (or women) to be mind readers and know if we are going to follow through with our flirting, or not. I think that is something which women tend to imagine men do - mind reading!
I don’t see things that way at all, but I can agree to disagree on this - if there are no signs of attraction there: then they should leave the uninterested females alone, or suffer the consequences of their repeated actions.
Trouble is though alot of men don’t know how to spot if ther eis no attraction. And MANY women flirt with men they don’t fancy…
My sister is a firm believer in game playing anyway, says it wouldn’t be as fun if there weren’t any games. But then she has been married for nearly 20yrs, so i’m sure it seems very exciting when you no longer play t hem!
I only flirt with guys when there is a mutual attraction there, and then enjoy every second of the flirt but I do not indulge those I am not attracted to, and I never said I did: as one of the ILP males is trying to make out I did…
Yes, but you can understand when peole havn’t got alo tof experience with it that they might automatically assume (which i know is wrong) that soeone eles is the same as they’ve experienced. Sorry for ht etypo’s, i type too fast.
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