Your Fancied Beauty

The point is to treat men, as men. And women, as women. There is no “double-standard” in that.

Men have some luxuries, privileges, and “rights” that women do not. Fucking lots of women and being a ‘stud’, being praised for that, is one of those luxuries.

Women have other luxuries. Like staying at home and raising kids all day, which is fun. Any woman who says that’s hard work or equivalent to a day job, is insane.

I met this very feminine woman last year, she’s a great mother to her children, except for being single and divorced. However she loves her two boys very much and is so extremely happy with them as they are with her. It’s very healthy, and enjoyable for others to see, that kind of relationship. Women have life very easy, much easier than men, so should not be complaining.

When women complain about life it’s usually because they are single, have no children, and/or are dissatisfied with their current boyfriend/relationship and are looking for “the next best thing”.

So what is it with you, Wendy?

Urwrongx1000

lol That is some kind of false propaganda. Granted, there are SOME women, who knows how many, who stay home all day and don’t do much. But do you have any idea of what a day can be like for a woman who does stay home and tend to those home fires? For a woman who loves her family and wants to care for her husband and children? Does she sit around all day?

Does she do grocery shopping, plan meals for the week, cook, clean, do laundry, make appointments, take the children wherever it is they have to go, pay attention to the children? Even loving can be exhauting if one is loving in the right way.

Any man who says that staying at home and raising kids is NOTHING BUT fun is seeing with the eyes of so much tunnel vision and also bias. When we are biased, we see even LESS THAN we do when we are not
~~ and no one sees ALL.

That would depend on the man or the woman, on the INDIVIDUAL. You cannot make a statement like that and keep it real . You cannot pigeon hole everyone. That might just be the sound of your father’s complaining voice ringing in your ears or those of many men - not all, but many. Not the words of the discerning conscious man.

If women do indeed have lives which are easy or easier or want them that way, why have so many of them joined the armed forces, become police officers, firefighters, (insert more here).

No, they do not want to become like men but they do want the same opportunities of men, to be able to march to the same drummers which men do (not even all men of course), to be able to evolve and expand their selves and their lives - which many men (not all) do not seem to want to do.

You really reduce women to the lowest common denominator don’t you?
Your view may be true for some but not all.
You have no way of knowing just WHY a woman complains about life. Try asking individual women why and listen for the answer. Don’t have your already known expectation floating around in your brain.

Have you never heard other men complaining about their lives? Are women only to have a monopoly on that?

What about the woman who has two jobs - the one where she goes out and brings money in to help the family, to contribute in other words, and comes home and works at her other job in the home, doing all the chores and things necessary to keep the family unit together, to keep those home fires burning.
I wonder what HE is doing at the time. Some men are great and helpful but others just complain - like they think that their wife is their mother in disguise. Do you disbelieve this?

INDIVIDUALS. SOME MEN. SOME WOMEN.