I started to say something - then realized that I misread what you had said - then realized that I needed to do more research (James didn’t leave a lot concerning this sort of thing) - then realized that I had way way way too much to say (incredible where this issue led me) - this topic’s scope goes from the bottom of society to the top - from side to side - to nearest and farthermost. So I held off to think of a better approach.
I thought to just explain an example or two and then skip to the point (leaving an injustice to the scope) but then when I thought about the point - I realized that the detailed explanation actually defines the point. And more significantly it reveals that what you are wanting to do is actually against natural law - a sin of nature. But every sin of nature has loopholes that depend on the individual situation - and I think yours qualifies - when your situation truly - truly - allows for absolutely no alternative - stealing is no longer a sin.
So one analogy example - If I were God and wanted to restore the US - I would just do the following -
- I would take a Friday to de-unify the political parties in the US Congress - scatter their priorities and choices to the point that almost every individual preferred something different.
- Then on Saturday - give the Presidency to a strong patriotic and intelligent bloke (a Mr Trump or Gov DeSantis type).
- Then Sunday - take a rest - “sit back and watch” as James once put it.
- after just a short time - problem solved - and for a long time - and for the entire world.
But in that analogy - I used a masculine administrator - have to (there is a very fundamental reason why so much is divided between masculine and feminine - by nature - NOT due to some bullying patriarchy). When there is a Chancellor - there is an opportunity for a masculine administration - so they stick a shella there - Merkel - shella in men’s clothing). Parliaments are different - they are more like a feminine devious gathering with a big dog as their PM. Although - most women in your type of situation do just that - get a big dog. And although that might help you feel a little better - I don’t think it leads to where you want to go - your real “intent”. So that type of effort would not apply to your situation - you are not allowed that masculine influence and a big dog isn’t likely to quite get you there (although could be included - might be enough for you). The social globalist stated intent - to feminize the entire West - remove all masculinity.
James had an interesting term - “your MyGod” (meaning your individual situation - maybe that is where they got the exclamation - “Oh - MyGod!” 
). And in this case he might say that your MyGod disfavors you (your situation is working against you). So the issue became “What could she realistically do to alter her situation toward gaining her goal?” (change the heart of your MyGod). And that word “realistically” has been the hitch to every formulated suggestion I could think of (James revealed some mind boggling formulas for just about everything - for those capable of seeing them).
So I think now what you just have to do is get your MyGod to favor you - change your situation to something more harmonious. But in the environment you are in - that might not be very easy. I thought perhaps that maybe you should just move to Australia’s outback (where there are still a few men who are - still men) - but probably not something you would be inclined to do.
So to skip past all of the other thousand things I thought to say - I think now you have to appeal to James’ basic “spell of changing” while concentrating very persistently on MIJOT. That isn’t as easy as I wanted to find - but it seems the only thing I can come up with. If it is done right - it would most certainly provide a path, a guide, and your intended destination. So exactly how “down to Earth” (iambiguous might say) can you accomplish that - easy to say - probably not so easy to do.
So my last resort suggestion -
- First learn what MIJOT means and make sure you understand it enough to really believe it.
- Practice MIJOT while “scrambling” your situation - have fun with it (“scramble your Congress”).
The first part of that I have had some experience in explaining (to Mr Anderson on this board) and am confident I could address any issues of doubt - assuming you have any.
The second part is more interesting - it involves “scrambling your congress”. I am not going to go into why that is necessary or how it works - especially not concerning the US Congress (somethings are best not said even on a baby bonkers board like this one). But I can express many of the details as to precisely what to do - if you choose to.
- Start rearranging your living space - move furniture, storage places, cabinet arrangements, closet arrangements, bed position, TV location - whatever. And do this about once a week - redecorate. DO NOT let your ideal preferences stand in the way! You can eventually change back to those when the time is right.
- Again about once a week alter WHEN you do whatever you do - when you go to bed - when you cook dinner - when you take out the trash - WHEN you do whatever you do - a time issue.
- Slightly (not dangerously) alter your social relationships - talk to people you normally don’t - visit people at different times than usual - do different things with them (and certainly keep MIJOT in mind during this part).
- And always - always - always smile and say to yourself - “the only thing I really know for certain is that MIJOT is the way”.
No part of this is to make any permanent changes - it is to keep the changing going - but at an acceptable pace (not too quickly - not too slowly).
This actually relates to the discussion on Determinism - “Is a will predetermined?” - “A person can will what he wants - but he cannot will what he wills”. But with the right spark - he actually can (but don’t tell that Schopenhauer bloke 
).
The point to this practice is to alter your situation (which includes both inner and outer positions and events) to the eventual point of gaining its favor (in kind of a sly way). And even though it might appear as such - it is not to change your intent to MIJOT (although I think that would be a great idea). Your intent was to feel that peace - and that takes specific things in your life (inside and out) - it takes specific changes in your situation. I think if you can accomplish what I have suggested - you will get there - and probably by unexpected occurrence (Oh bloody lord - I am becoming James 
).
So what do you think?
