I have no desire here to catch people up unless asked a direct question about terminology.
We live in a sex dimorphic species. The larger sex is more threatening to the smaller sex. This initial threat imbalance causes minute repulsion in the smaller sex when the larger sex uses sexual signaling - sexual signaling, which can be understood as any form of ornate behavior.
If a male is accepted sexually for causing this involuntary discomfort, then a no has become a yes.
I want to be very clear here:
Males (as ornate behavior) invented and built all of this. All of this is ornate behavior. For example: if I use tinder to hook up with a woman, I’m using something called approach escalation by proxy (I’m using another man to hook me up with a woman) because the Internet was invented by men. This is rape.
Now, I’m going to turn my attention to homosexuals for a moment … they are NOT sex dimorphic!
However! Through omission of the heterosexual problem, they have abused the system with abuse through omission to secure all of their sexual selections by remaining silent. Those are all rapes as well.
Rape is very simple: it is sex that you’ll have to completely regret in its entirety.
I’m not even getting into the zero sum problem here, I’m talking about sex in the mundane world.
We were all thrown into a trap. If you follow me, I’m explaining it in great detail
Marriage is a legal / moral contract between two people so swearing an oath to yourself makes no sense
I do however think that it is highly impractical to swear faithfulness to someone for the rest of your life
Making such an absolute promise when you cannot possibly know the future is nothing short of madness
The first thing you/we all need to do is acknowledge this problem really exists, and that it disproves all current and past gods whenever observed.
Then we need to step up and start making reality as positive non zero sum as we can… eventually with that strong will, using our tools to eventually reach 100% positive non zero sum realities.
As long as people CELEBRATE their zero sum wins rather than being solemn about them, then there’s just billions of people who are dead weight.
It’s hard to carry that many people, doesn’t mean one shouldn’t try though
If they ask you, just tell them not to talk to you anymore. It’s the same thing women are supposed to do for men who approach escalate, just refuse sex with them.
Yeah…but they’ve already violated by consent.
What if they continue to violate it by asking for explanations.
I’ve been violated all my life and didn’t even know it, until you pointed it out.
Was born, without my consent; breast fed, with it; sent to school and taught, without it; asked how I was doing, without it; forced to work, without it; telephoned, without it; emailed, without it…
This is terrible.
Well, then perhaps you’ll understand that following this direction is the best way to cure boredom for huge minds that bore easily … when life becomes unchallenging for you… take the path I set.
There really is nothing better to do with life when you really think about it. And you get a clearer conscience
I’ll tell you one thing that will seem mystical to you if you’ve never had this experience… watch out telling existence that you’re bored like I did, it may send you to hell, and hell is never boring! I often liken existence to an evil genie that grants infinite wishes!!
I don’t know you well enough to make that assessment