phyllo wrote:Unless women are remote controlled robots, I still consider it "control of women's bodies".
Well, you seemed to accept that other legislation was about control. And then the legislation aimed at men is no longer controlling men, but 'controlling them' I figure if a woman can go to prison for breaking a law, meaning that the state will come in and put her body somewhere if she does X, then her body is controlled. And since the legislation will control many women, out of fear of consequences, that also is a control.
Without acknowledging my points we are now moving into new areas. With citation marks and strange noun choices like 'optics'. Why not acknowledge a point or not before moving on, instead of sort of doing it and searching around for some other way there might be a problem?
Which points?
This? : "Most if not all of the other legislation you are referring would be controlling any person X's body if they do Y."
Legislation controlling all bodies is still controlling men's bodies so men know what that feels like. I thought that I did not need to write it. I guess that I did.
Men don't know what it feels like to have their body controlled by laws that only have to do with them as men. I thought I wouldn't have to say that.
One example of what you could have acknolwedged was you saying that if the women are upset about a law controlling their bodies, that's silly since their are many laws that control bodies (I think it was there you decided not to have citation marks.) I would have thought no one had to say that those laws are not gender specific, this being obviously the entire point of the counter-legislation.
Legislation specifically targeting men? : Alimony laws. Paternity laws. I'm sure that there are others.
Alimony laws cut both ways.
Paternity laws is a good point. I believe courts can demand that a man take a dna test. From there courts can demand things of both people who turn out to be parents, but don't need much effort to find out if the female is the parent. I don't think this is a good counterweight to demanding that a woman continue to go through a pregnancy. IOW the latter involves much more time and experience and control. But it does stand as a counterexample. You could contact the legislators in question and point out that men probably do understand what control is like based on their gender due to demands that they produce dna samples. They might think it is not enough, they might buy it and retract their legislation.
And yes, I do understnad that paternity laws entail other things in the long run, but then being a parent entails things in the long run from both parties.
Did I miss something else? Do I still owe you?
Owe is not the word I would have used. If anyone is owed, it would be both of us and any readers, not me in particular. I've mentioned some things I think you missed above.