Same here, I would like to know the REAL one as well, but where is the evidence or even a thesis for its possibility?
Ever since the idea of God emerged into human consciousness from animism, polytheism to monotheism, no evidence has been produced to prove a REAL god exists. Why?
It is because it is so obvious that theists are unable prove God exists as REAL that they push the argument to one that is based on reason and subsequently more ‘sophisticated’ reason [cosmological argument, etc. ] culminating in an ontological God which is an impossibility.
A human-liked aliens in a planet billions of light years away is an empirical possibility, albeit very very low possibility. But God which must ultimately be an absolute perfect God is not even empirically possible, it is an absolute impossibility [as proven].
The idea of a God emerged out of crude primal reason as compelled by an inherent existential crisis and it is with finer reason itself that the God-idea is destroyed as an impossibility to be empirically real.
The alternative argument I have provided why people believe in a God is due and driven by subliminal psychological factors, e.g. an existential crisis, angst, and the likes is a more tenable and manageable thing. This is not a speculation but the various Eastern spiritualities has already instituted and been practicing such a non-theistic ideology since thousands of years ago.