Philosophy and death

Note to others:

Well put!

If you know what I mean. :laughing:

So am I. Sounds overly romanticized. I always like to take a more practical approach first to answering these kinds of question, and if it seems warranted afterwards, then go deep. On the question of death, for example, seems a pretty open and shut case that we fear it due to naturally endowed instincts to fear it. Those who didn’t fear death, well, died. Those who did, didn’t. We don’t need a deep philosophical understanding of the fear of death to explain it. It’s quite simply explained by classical stimulus/response neurology. A large cliff looms in front of you, thoughts of falling to your death rush in, and that stimulates the fear centers in your brain. You take a step back and feel a bit safer. Someone arrests you for a crime of treason or some such, and you learn you’ll be taken to the death squads, a sudden feeling of panic overtakes you. This is an instinct. Your brain learns of your impending death, and right away the fear centers are triggered. It’s all just hard wiring. This is why very few of us actually fear death by old age. It’s not a threat of life being cut short by an accident or some malicious intent, but what must happen to us all inevitably. There is no point, no survival advantage, in fear a death we cannot avoid, and so we slowly approach it as we grow older with calm and serenity (or at least not constantly fretting about it).

Now the question of why we philosophize… that’s a much deeper one. I agree with Iambig that it seems silly to say we are preparing to die–it presupposes a tall order–that it’s being driven by unconscious forces, and almost depends on some overly speculative psychodynamics. I think there’s many reasons we philosophize; off the top of my head, I can think of the fact that we like to think period. We like to figure things out. It tends to help maneuvering through the world. And so what if our thinking gets abstract sometimes, or deep and profound–our brains weren’t built with sign posts that warn us not to venture too far into abstraction or depth. If we’re trying to figure something out, and our thoughts happen to lead into the abstract and profound, why stop there? Abstraction and profundity are just ways of saying generalities–that is, thought structures and concepts that applies to a whole range of more concrete scenarios–the more abstract, the more general (as a hard and fast rule)–and so there can be utility in going into the abstract and the profound–that is, so long as we also bring those thoughts back into the realm of the concrete and the specific (they have to have an application to be of any use).

As an example which concurs with what Karpel Tunnel was saying–some of the most useful philosophies turned out to have such powerful application in the real world that they ceased to be philosophy–they were so useful, in other words, that they were no longer recognized as philosophy–I’m talking about branches of thought like science, like politics, like mathematics; everyone here knows that science was once called “natural philosophy”, right? Well, that was the birth of a new discipline. Same with many of our political systems today–democracy, republicanism, and even some of the completely unpalatable ones like Marxism–that started off as philosophy too. This tendency of philosophical thought to yield new disciplines which cease to be recognized as philosophy is perhaps one of the greatest reasons philosophy is seen by some to be useless–if all the really useful stuff inevitably becomes a whole different branch cut off from philosophy proper, then of course what’s left isn’t going to seem all that useful. It’s like saying all students are dumb because all the smart ones graduate and therefore cease to be students.

This is from Socrates’

The thesis to be supported is a generalized version of his earlier advice to Evenus: that “the one aim of those who practice philosophy in the proper manner is to practice for dying and death
iep.utm.edu/phaedo/#SH3a

Whilst there is some truth to the above, I believe the Title.
“To Philosophize Is to Learn How to Die”
is not effective and misleading if taken too seriously.

Philosophy-proper is most effective to deal with the indirect Existential Angst that emerged out of the inherent and subliminal fear triggered to avoid premature death.

If ‘mortality’ is a conscious fear or anxiety and concern for a person, then s/he is suffering from a mental illness, i.e. thanatophobia.
This is why the majority of humans will openly and heroically declared they do not fear death [consciously] while being ignorant the inherent fear of death is brewing unconsciously and subliminally within their brain.

From evolution, all humans are “programmed” not to have a conscious fear of mortality except intermittently which disappear easily.
It is only the odd exceptions that have a persistent conscious fear of mortality and they are suffering from thanatophobia and they would need psychiatric help.
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_anx … sychology)

All humans are programmed to avoid and fear death else they will be reckless and die easily, so this fear is suppressed subliminally and is expressed indirectly.
But the problem is the suppression is not total thus there are leakages subliminally and this is manifested as angst and anxieties where the source is not easily traceable.
Existential angst is like a terrible itch where one do not know where to scratch.
But existential angst are more terrible pains and sufferings without a spot to scratch than the worst itch.

Thus the majority of human beings rely on the hit and miss [black box] methods to try to relieve the pains of the existential angst.
Religion and theism are determined to be the best balm to soothe the existential angst. The relief is immediate. Believed and viola! one is saved. Besides theism and religions there are other modes of beliefs [shamanism, magic, etc.] which you mentioned that would relieve the existential pains indirectly.

But as we had discussed, religions and theism has terrible cons [negatives] beside being a balm for the existential angst, but the trade off at present is in favor of the need of religion and theism to relieve the terrible pains of the existential angst.

Thus Philosophy-proper is the most effective approach to deal with the Existential Angst without the associated side effects of religions and theism.

To Philosophize Is to Learn How to Die
Facing death can be a key to our liberation and survival.
By Simon Critchley
April 11, 2020

From the NYT philosophy series The Stone

Again, if there are in fact those here who have used philosophy in order to learn how to die, then for them that becomes the bottom line. I congratulate them because, well, in grappling with the literal abyss, whatever works.

Right?

But given my own philosophy of life here and now it hasn’t taught me much at all. Why? Because nothing really changes. I am still getting closer and closer to oblivion. I am still getting closer and closer to having all that I love in life snatched away from me for all of eternity. How on earth can philosophy be of any use to me in that regard?

And, really, for those who are still able to sustain the conviction that a loving, just and merciful God will one day welcome them with open arms, bestowing upon them immortality and paradise, it would be idiotic for me to claim that they aren’t far better off than I am now. And while some atheists are able to take comfort in the fact that at least they have the intellectual integrity and courage to face death squarely on their own…that just doesn’t work for me.

This is basically over my head. Sure, on threads like this one, I’ll dive into the deep end of the pool and grapple with death by struggling to comprehend it. If only in a philosophical setting. And, who knows, I might actually come upon another’s dive that yields a far less pessimistic account.

But, by far, my most successful approach to dealing with death is to dive down instead into any number of distractions. Activities that take my mind away from death. Things I enjoy doing that require my concentration in order to do them well. It’s either this or in acknowledging that sooner or later my “set of circumstances” will precipitate so much pain and misery, I am then able to view death as the only possible antidote. Wanting to die in other words.

Yes, if this is an example of utilizing philosophy in order to learn how to die, and it “works” for you, all the better. Because that’s all that really counts in the end. Finding something that makes your death less terrifying.

To Philosophize Is to Learn How to Die
Facing death can be a key to our liberation and survival.
By Simon Critchley
April 11, 2020

From the NYT philosophy series The Stone

In a sense, it basically reflects death itself. Our own death in particular. It’s out there. All too real. We can’t see it or experience it now, but we know that eventually it will encompass the structure of our own reality. And certainly with no vaccine for it. At least not for us here and now. But is there a philosophical assessment that brings us closer to situating it objectively in our lives? In each of our own particular lives which can be so very, very different?

Nope, that has just never worked for me: “I die, therefore I am free”. The fear and anxiety are instead merely construed by me to be part and parcel of the brute facticity embedded in my own essentially meaningless existence. And death just takes away for all of eternity the actual existential meaning that I have been able to sustain now for decades.

On the contrary, freedom comes into play here for me only in a sense that my life can become simply unbearable. The pain [both physical and mental] can reach the point where I will beg to die. Why? In order to be free of that for all of eternity.

What some – many? most? – of us are swimming in is a sea of death. And not just from the coronavirus. We know that we are being pulled towards death because every time we turn on the news we are confronted with all the ways in which we can die.

So, is this what constitutes a “philosophical” reflection on death? Are you able to “liberate” yourself by thinking like this? Will you acquire just the right kind of courage here to be construed by other philosophers as “wise”?

Tell us about it.

To Philosophize Is to Learn How to Die
Facing death can be a key to our liberation and survival.
By Simon Critchley
April 11, 2020

From the NYT philosophy series The Stone

Of course the last thing most do is to turn to philosophers like Heidegger in order to reduce their own death down to a “social inconvenience” or to “down right tactlessness”.

After all, what on earth does either one even mean? And, in particular, as it relates to the new number one cause of death here in America: covid-19. No getting around mortality when you tune into the news these days. And any “counterfeit eternity” will be put to the test whenever you step outside your front door and play Russian roulette with everyone you happen to come across just in the course of going to the grocery store.

Me, I can’t imagine philosophy working to put our reality today into an assessment other than the one Critchley attempts here. Far, far, far removed from the actual lives that the overwhelming preponderances of us live. A general description intellectual contraption on steroids.

But: not true at all we are told.

Does this make sense to you? Can you relate it to your life? Can you imagine attending a funeral [when that becomes possible again] and noting this to those gathered around the coffin? Again, to me, it sounds like something that elevates death into something analogous to a Platonic form. A world of words death that one expects from those who think thoughts like this for a living.

On the other hand, he does comes closer to that which rings true to “me” here:

But then in closing he has to spoil it…for me.

What “human beings” are said to be [by anyone] and how one sees oneself as a human being can be nothing short of a gaping chasm for some of us. And this is the part where, in my view, philosophers can tread if it is somethjing they feel they can contribute to. But once they reach the point where they are arguing that our “wretchedness is our greatness”, they completely alienate me. This is a “general description intellectual contraption” that is far, far removed from the manner in which I see “I” here as, instead, an inherently ambiguous and profoundly confusing “existential contraption.”

And in regard to both life and death.

Will reply to this later…

Death, Faith & Existentialism
Filiz Peach explains what two of the greatest existentialist thinkers thought about death: Martin Heidegger and Karl Jaspers.

Not me though, right?

My interest in death revolves far more around the actual existential implications of it. In other words, how does the manner in which we think about death [when we do think about it] impact on the behaviors that we choose from day to day as that impacts on what we imagine the fate of “I” to be when we tumble over into the abyss.

Whatever that means.

This and sustaining all of the “distractions” that one can accumulate in order to distance “I” from the reality of death itself.

At least up to the point where one way or another you find yourself eyeball to eyeball with your actual flesh and blood extinction here and now. Or just around a corner or two.

But first of course this part:

I mean, come on, let’s get real: to the extent that you are able to think yourself into believing this [or are indoctrinated by others instead], problem solved. Well, if not in the back of your mind. But the beauty of this sort of belief – or, for some “leaf of faith” – is that when others [like me] yammer on and on about demonstrating that it is true, all you have to do is to believe that it is true.

And it’s not like the No God folks can demonstrate their own conclusions.

Death, Faith & Existentialism
Filiz Peach explains what two of the greatest existentialist thinkers thought about death: Martin Heidegger and Karl Jaspers.

Interesting perhaps but rather routine for those who root such things in the existential fabrication of “I”. He was no different from the rest of us. Thrown adventitiously into a set of circumstances at birth, then indoctrinated as a child to see himself out in a particular world in a particular way.

God and religion being but one manifestation of that.

So, my intent would be to discover how and why, given the life that he lived, he came to write Being and Time at all. And why including some things but not others? And why with so few references to God and religion. Or, for that matter, human moral and political values.

Then the part where the “serious philosophers” among us speculate as to whether this was a “mistake” on his part. That God and religion are important factors regarding being in time…and that it may well be possible for the most rational among us to determine the precise content that would be needed in order to make his book all that much more relevant to the “human condition”.

Okay, but in what particular context, involving what particular beings moving through time for what particular reasons. Why choose these instead of those. And then all the stuff that matters most to me: identity, value judgments and political power.

Still, in regard to “human existence” in a particular set of circumstances, where does the ontic stop and the ontological begin? Or the ontological stop and the ontic begin?

As that relates to the distinction I make between beings in time interacting objectively in the either/or world, and beings in time interacting subjectively in the is/ought world.

And, no, not just in regard to the Nazis.

My behaviours are not determined by my acceptance of death because the two occupy different points in time
I accept death as inevitable and unless or until my departure from this world is going to be a painful one then it does not actually bother me at all
Even then it will not bother me since death and dying are two separate things even though one automatically follows the other as logic determines
Also I can think of nothing worse than living forever - that to me would be hell - so when the time does come it will be a relief to leave this existence

Sure, there are those able to think themselves into examining and then confronting death in this manner.

Some even their own existential death. And, indeed, more power to them. Who, unable to themselves, would not envy them?

Here though one would have to explore with them the extent to which their own actual death is more or less eminent. In other words, how “philosophical” is their assessment given what they perceive here and now to still be a great distance from their own demise.

Next, one would have to explore just how much they have to lose in dying. Is their life bursting at the seams with loved ones, accomplishments, rewarding experiences. Plentiful fulfilments and satisfactions.

Then the part regarding God and religion. Are they convinced that death is merely a transition for an immortal soul “passing on” to salvation in paradise on the other side?

And, certainly, if one had to live forever in agony, death may well be something that they might plead for. It’s not for nothing that many religions invent Hell or its equivalent.

Simone de Beauvoir wrote a novel exploring this: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/All_Men_Are_Mortal

“The main tension exists between the meaningless of daily life, rituals, style from the perspective of an immortal man contrasted by the seeming trivial concerns of a mortal woman: the importance and the value they put on things are at opposite ends of the spectrum. From his perspective everything is essentially the same. From her perspective even the most trivial is unique and carries significance.”

The key of course being “perspective”. And here given the profoundly complex and problematic nature of dasein, any particular individual can have a perspective far beyond that which others are able to grasp. In regard to either living or dying, life or death.

So, just out of curiosity, how does all of the above impact on your own “perspective”?

I have no family so do not worry about anyone having to watch me die
I have never achieved anything in my life and so nothing to lose there
I am philosophically dead and so I am already half way there anyway
And if there is a God and I am to suffer metaphysical hell I will do so

In a word: dasein

Death, Faith & Existentialism
Filiz Peach explains what two of the greatest existentialist thinkers thought about death: Martin Heidegger and Karl Jaspers.

And of course that has absolutely nothing to with how people feel when contemplating that everyone and everything they know and love will be obliterated for “I” at the moment of death. Including, one supposes, how those millions upon million of men, women and children felt before they died in Hitler’s death camps.

Instead, let’s pin down the “existential significance” of death here as it relates – philosophically? – to “Dasein’s being-in-the-world”.

No, really, what important “technical” distinction am I missing here?

Like it takes a philosophical mind to grasp that being born is a death sentence. Like the human species, in being the only species on Earth able to grasp this self-consciously [given free will], is the only species that needs to find a way to fit death into life itself.

Okay, in the face of one’s existential death, does authenticity then come to revolve for some around being or not being a Nazi? Or, given that death here is only explored as a conception, are things of that sort largely irrelevant?

Unless, of course, historically, culturally and experientially, different communities of men and women come to configure living and dying in very different ways. And, in so doing, configure the relationship between I and we, I and you, us and them etc., in very differernt ways.

The part where, among other things, memes and my own understanding of dasein come into play.

Death, Faith & Existentialism
Filiz Peach explains what two of the greatest existentialist thinkers thought about death: Martin Heidegger and Karl Jaspers.

This can make for any number of rather mind-boggling scenarios. If you are convinced that death encompasses the utter obliteration of all that you know and love, of all that you are as an extant human being, what then would you be willing to do to prolong that life? For example, how many others would you be willing to trample on if they got in the way of your continuing to exist?

Say some sadistic bastard threatened to kill someone you love – or many that you love – if you did not take your own life…is there a “right answer” here? In fact, we can think up any in number of situations in which, in order to sustain the existence of “I”, we might be required to do all manner of nasty things.

Is there a line here that you won’t cross?

This is just intellectual gibberish to me. As though the flesh and blood ontic dasein can explore the ontological philosophical Dasein and come away with an understanding that makes the points that I raise go away.

Unless, of course, someone here would like to make that attempt. Given a particular context.

Instead, the closest that the “serious philosopher” seems to come is encompassed in an assessment of this sort:

Again, what I would prefer are those who either agree with or disagree with Heidegger’s assessment of Dasein, Being and Authenticity, noting how in their own interactions with others these capital letter words are relevant to encounters that precipitate conflicting behaviors revolving around conflicting value judgments that are not manifested existentially given the manner in which I construe the meaning of dasein in my signature threads.

Death, Faith & Existentialism
Filiz Peach explains what two of the greatest existentialist thinkers thought about death: Martin Heidegger and Karl Jaspers.

As though, given the staggering vastness of the universe, that is even possible! Sure, take cracks at it. Why not? But to suppose that as a “serious philosopher” one can encompass an ontological – teleological? – assessment of the human condition? How could that be other than “in your head”?

Consider this: sciencechannel.com/tv-shows … universe-2

Here we bump into just how staggeringly vast – weird? eerie? – the universe is. After watching it, ask yourself how close you think philosophers or scientists are to broaching an onotological/teleological understanding of mere human beings.

Okay, somewhere between “personal immortality” and “total annihilation”. On the other hand, what else could it be? Perhaps we exist in a certain way beyond our death but only for a certain amount of time. Or we exist in embodiments that are very different. Or “I” itself isn’t sustained into eternity but some component of it is manifested in ways that we can scarcely conceive of now.

Again, when you watch episodes like the one above on the Science Channel, nothing at all seems beyond possibility. And then throw in the quantum world and multiple universes?

And then the part where secular philosophy ends and theology/religion begins? The part where we start to capitalize words like Existenz, Transcendence and Being?

Death, Faith & Existentialism
Filiz Peach explains what two of the greatest existentialist thinkers thought about death: Martin Heidegger and Karl Jaspers.

And yet, clearly, in the either/or world, this “empirical self with a temporal dimension” is bursting at the seams with attributes that can readily be grasped objectively by all with functioning senses and functioning brains.

Really? Okay, then note a set of circumstances in which individuals interact and describe those aspects of these interactions that reflect the “non-objective free self” and those that don’t. In the either/or world, authenticity is built right into us genetically, biologically.

“Transcend one’s finitude?” Same thing. Focus in on flesh and blood human interactions and point to instances when one either is or is not transcending their finitude. I merely shift the discussion here from the either/or I to the is/ought “i”.

See, I told you. But: two or more people can be in exactly the same situation and yet, in regard differentiating between right from wrong behavior, be all over the map morally and politically. And what explains this other than the part where in reacting to behaviors entirely rooted in the either/or world, the is/ought “i”, is embodied in my subjective/subjunctive dasein rather than in anything that philosopher kings might provide us with.

Death just raises the stakes here all that much more.

Death, Faith & Existentialism
Filiz Peach explains what two of the greatest existentialist thinkers thought about death: Martin Heidegger and Karl Jaspers.

Again, the gap between any particular one of us facing our own particular death as dasein, and attempts by philosophers [existentialist or otherwise] to speak of this in terms of either authentic/dignified behavior or inauthentic/undignified behavior.

As though this is something that philosophers can actually accomplish!

Well, unless of course they can. In the interim however…

Just as there are countless numbers of profoundly problematic contexts in which we can live our lives, there are just as many problematic contexts in which we can die. Sure, up to a point we can communicate the thoughts and the feelings we have about our own demise, but only up to a point. Beyond that the ever fluid permutation of existential variables that can differ so dramatically for each of us will always be a barrier that, in my view, philosophers are, like the rest of us, unable to really transcend.

Or, perhaps, as Orson Welles once surmissed:

“We’re born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we’re not alone.”

You have your rendition of this, I have mine.

Likewise, our individual reaction to conjectures of this sort is rooted in dasein. Is there an optimal manner in which to grasp it? Is how you relate it to your own life and the death of loved ones more reasonable then how I relate it to mine?

You tell me:

In regard to your own loved ones lost “phenomenally”, what “existential communication” have you managed to “preserve” for all of eternity? Isn’t this precisely the sort of intellectual contraption that some philosophers think up to take death itself up into the stratospere of abstraction?

Sooner or later we all face death. Will a sense of meaning help us?
Warren Ward from AEON website

Unless of course you are convinced that you have existed in past lives. Or are likely to be reincarnated into a new life. Then the quandary revolves more around the extent to which this is an incarnation/reincarnation of “I” [as you know yourself to be here and now] or the embodiment of a reality that is not able to actually be put into words.

This reminds me of one possible take on an observation John Fowles made in [I believe] The Aristos. Human existence, he noted, is analogous to sitting at a desk awash with telephones. Big ones. Small ones. In between ones. They represent all of those different things above that can afflict our bodies. Our minds. We sit there waiting for the next one to ring…hoping that this time it is just one of the small ones. Or not more than one at a time. But we know that among the phones is the one that we dread the most. The one that, in ringing, ushers in the Big One. The physical ailment that culminates in our death. And, clearly, “a sense of meaning” here can be many different things to many different people.

That’s how it works all right. Only, when the Big One has pounced on any particular one of us, the “big picture” can quickly be whittled down “in our head” to “me”, “myself” and “I”. Not the philosophy of death but our own.

What then of a “sense of meaning”? Why one and not another?

And what will yours be?

Sooner or later we all face death. Will a sense of meaning help us?
Warren Ward from AEON website

It’s one thing to imagine “death the teacher” when you have thought yourself into believing that, one way or another, death is not the end at all. Then what death teaches you is that in order to attain what you imagine your fate to be beyond the grave, there are certain requistes propelling you to choose particular behaviors in this side of it.

But what does death teach you when you have instead thought yourself into believing that what awaits you on the other side of the grave is oblivion…the utter obliteration of “I” for all time to come.

Many of course will see the lesson here as revolving around behaviors that sustain your existence. And that becomes problematic because you can find yourself not choosing to do things you would like to try because these behaviors bring with them an increasing possibility that one’s life is endangered. Or you can find yourself in situations where others expect you to act in certain ways that you hesitate to choose because there is in turn increasing dangers involved. Someone might threaten those that you love but you note the risk that in intervening your own life is put at risk.

There are in fact countless existential contexts in which what you believe about death can have a profoundly problematic impact on how you react to them.

Same here. Ask that question to scores of people living in different historical, cultural and experiential contexts and you are likely to get different “top 5” answers. That some answers will occur more often than others reflects the continuities that all of us share as human beings. But individual regrets would seem to be manifestations of dasein. Each of us will regret different things for different reasons. And philosophers would not appear able to pin down the most “rational” things that one ought to regret.