That is interesting. I don’t, however see how it has to do with sexual stratification. You see, in this thread, I’m not just delving into the OP, I’m also delving into the “why” of the OP… why are most flashers in the world men? Why when women flash, do they deny it? I honestly don’t think, as has been stated earlier that women DON’T NOT know they are flashing their breasts and nipples at select men by bending down and leaning forward when talking to them. Usually when they do this, they don’t make eye contact as well, which means they want you to look without getting caught… they take the opportunity to mostly look at what they are bending over to see, or if it’s in a park, they situate themselves next to you and look out instead of at you. I’ve seen this behavior quite a bit in my life, so I know what I’m talking about here. I’m blunt as hell… the moment I see nipple, just like when I see food on someones face, I say it. The reactions of women are often, “No you can’t, you’re just making that up.” I used to pursue this line, but now I just drop it. I just tell them I can see it, and expect them to not change their behavior. Obviously if they’re playing some kind of strange game with me, I’m going to keep looking, because it’s fun… but men don’t have this denial of flashing like women do, in fact male flashers often jump out of bushes or drop their drawers, I mean you can’t deny that shit. Males are much more overt about it.
I actually posted this thread on the day one of my apartment complex tenants did this to me, which reminded me of it. For a moment she put her right arm over the V-neck to block it, and then just mysteriously let the arm down and let her v-neck shirt sink as she bent down to pet a cat at the perfect angle to have an unobstructed view of her entire breast. I said, “I don’t know if you know or even care about things like this, but I thought you should know I can see your breast and nipple with the clothes you’re wearing.” And guess what she said?!! “You’re making that up.”
Oh dear gods. A guy flashes for humor, when a woman does what your neighbor did she is signaling interest in you. You blew it. She was flirting a bit in order to strike up a conversation and or date. You went callus and insulted the hell out of her.
Guys don’t flash for humor, they flash for the golden rule… they want women to flash. They will feign like they are flashing for humor, but that is not why they flash… it’s actually a mental disturbance that men flash women. As for the woman in question… she has a VERY serious boyfriend. She was getting off on showing me her tits, that’s it. Then she denied it.
The problem here is that flirting should be in the DSM as a psychological disorder… it’s to ambiguious and tempestuous, and women like hordes of boy toys, where men don’t play the girl toy game, they actually want to have sex with who they flirt with. But even male flirting should be seen as a psychological disorder because it’s humoring the female psychological disorder. GROWN UPS ASK FOR SEX!!! They are transparent, and they check consent verbally!!!
The problem is that men aren’t even supposed to approach women because of approach stratification, but that’s basically the only thing that works… so men become HYPER-APPROACHING, which is why they flash so obviously relative to women.
The short of it… this woman has ZERO intention of ever having sex with me Kris.
I really want this post to sink in for you Kris, because you called me a child and asked me to grow up, yet you flirt… cognitively, I’m like a 200 year old man, and you are just a little girl, so it’s a bit ironic that this was part of what you were trying to level against me.
And you are so wrong smartypants.
Nice argument. (sarcasm)
It is your level.
It’s well known that women flirt for defense, to get as many guys attracted to them as they can, but they only sleep with one of them maybe two of them etc… when a man flirts HE WILL HAVE SEX WITH YOU. There’s no ambiguity here.
Your mind is like a sexual selection child. This is part of why men act out more with flashing as well.
Again, out of date and biased as no true research has been done. Only males guessing not truly researching has come up with this bogus bull to explain why they can’t keep a woman. You have no true research, only mind games.
Research? Lot’s of things haven’t been researched which are common knowledge amongst sociologists and evolutionary psychologists. Just look at female affectations compared to male ones… look at thousands of people, and come back and tell me who flirts more… men or women. This will be funny. I walk into a coffee shop and watch how women affect with their eyes and body language with men, and then I watch how men do the same with women… MEN HARDLY EVER FLIRT. Women flirt all the time.
You also need to check little things like the pitch raising as if a question is being asked when words are being used, This is a sign of flirting. Like I tried to explain to Uccisore, I’m one of the worlds experts on this stuff.
Men flirt just as much as women. If a man flirts even remotely as a woman does, I would question his sexuality.
Males and females use different ways attractive to the opposite gender often it is instinctive not deliberate. We are not that far removed from animals.
Men don’t flirt as much as women (the men who get laid a lot flirt as much as women, because women are attracted to what they’re like, maybe you’re using that bias to think men flirt as much as women).
My point exactly as far as animals go… I just opened up this thread, to clarify an issue that came up in a couple others…
I want to add to this, there was Canadian study done which shows that women prefer a somewhat straight demeanor in terms of attraction and men are attracted most to smiling in women (based on showing hundreds of people hundreds of photos shown in multiple expressions), so just based on that study, we can reasonably assume that men don’t flirt as much as women. Men have no incentive to flirt with their expressions. Now the flirting comes with language, and technically, flirting is approach, it’s not only approach, it’s temptestuous / crazy-making approach, rather than direct approach (which turns women off - “will you have sex with me?”). Direct approach turns men on. The genders are very psychologically different to this regard.
I say quality not quantity.
I would also like to see that man…to see the way he walks.
Kareem claimed over 30,000 women, a basketball player. The lead singer of Simply Red claimed to have a sex addiction, and claimed 3 different women per day during the peak of his career.
