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Dude… you are seriously out of the loop on how women work.
Sign up for the forums!
Go find “The mystery method” in the local bookstore, go read “the game” by neil strauss… you need HELP!!
Flowers?? uggh!!!
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I was in your situation a few months ago. The lesson learned was that I should accept the obvious alarms and get the heck away from those kind of females. Heh, like there is any other kind.
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Dude, you spooked her. The ‘game’ on her part was merely a defensive mechanism.
I suggested the friendship route so that you can better understand your approach. Believe me when I say, there are some serious kinks that need to get worked on. I’m not planning on laying them out for you. You don’t seem interested.
Wait a minute; this girl works in the same location you work? Oh man, I am so sorry. You only had one chance with this. After that, well, here we are. They talk.
Game. You said you were employing some kind of game. All I see here is all kinds of sloppy. You never tell a girl she is playing games even when she IS playing games at the time you tell her she is playing games. She will, 99.9% of the time, get defensive. Feeling conered, she will attack. You will lose your hand. At this point you will either concede, giving her the upper hand, or she will just retreat. Either way, you lose. You never tell a girl she is playing games. Dude, everyone knows that this is rule Number One of the Socratic Method, you know, not telling the girl she is playing games … that is, if you want to get her.
She liked you. At some point you have to admit you did something wrong to elicit a negative response from her. If you weed through all the responses to you regarding this matter, trust me, something might click. And if you don’t see it, ask me, I might point out a few things. But again, I don’t plan on laying the whole thing out for you. This is your cross to bare … wait a minute, was that bare, or bear? I know you are not taking this too seriously, but…
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Right decision? ‘You’ make a right decision? You’ll make a right decision when she tells you to make a right decision. Come on dude, everyone knows this. Know that you can never make a right decision until she says so.
Hey, better you than me. Thanks for letting us live vicariously through you. There is a possibility I’ve learned much.
Seems like she was just confused about her feelings for her ex: nothing more - it happens!
If you’re gonna start seeing relationships as defense/attack: rather than a love interest ‘God help you’! When you find some-one who’s into you: you won’t even be thinking bout that shit 
Real, do you not have any female relations that you can talk to, A sister, a cousin, Aunt? someone? Dear God do not talk to your mother, That is the last female you should ever talk to about women. Any guy that talks to his mom about women is asking for doomed relationships.
Find a female relative, talk to her. Not mom , bad mom, no no noo. Grandmas are taboo too but, just not as much.
Dude - she was lining you up - putting you on the shelf - you were her emergency backup dude. There are women who cannot stand being without A Relationship for more than a few seconds.
Now that you have shown that you are willing to be her emergency backup dude (EBD) and that you clearly have no self-respect, she owns your ass. Kiss it goodbye, or hope that she lets you borrow it back from time to time.
Or there is that…
Most women I know go straight from one guy to another: for the sake of not being alone - but she could also genuinely be pining after her ex 
RO, I want you to watch this video with your girlfriend and your girlfriend’s other boyfriend:
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I guess I’ll sleep tonight, after all.
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Yes! Yet another job well done. Good job team. Way to go.
Now let’s go have a collective cookie.