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You did not answer the question old man.
What was the creepy inquiry about? Why are you, a married man, calling another your “mistress” and playing games with them?
You are married. With kids and grandkids. Spend time with your wife and family.
You are like the little boy with his own ice cream bowl, leaning over and dipping his spoon into other people’s ice cream bowls.
Grow up. Appreciate what you have.