Bro women don’t want guys to wage war, neither with each other or with other countries. What they want is for guys to fight over them a little - to ensure they get the strongest male - but not to kill each other. The paradox of the female is that she is a collison of two diametrically opposed instincts. One is her creating competition among males, and the other is the maternal instinct that wants to nurture, heal, care for, water house plants and all that shit. So she likes the chivalrous environment she creates, but she hates it when people get hurt because of it.