So considering we are not the highest level of personhood, but/and come from the highest level of personhood, how should we treat lower levels of personhood, since the highest level of personhood allows us to at least exist?
Maybe the death drive is actually a drive to transform into something greater and kill something lesser in ourselves? Maybe you could interpret the cocoon, or shedding of skin, or maturation, or hibernation, or sleep, as a kind of coffin to a lower self that makes the greater self possible? But the coffin of rebirth while biologically alive is… choosing other (no, greater) than … well, a lack of recognition of the image of original personhood in every other, including self.
And if someone has not yet gone through that transformation, how should we relate with them to help them along the way?