Maybe I’m an outlier, but malicious deception is a dealbreaker.
I’ve seen obvious truths that others didn’t see, or pretended not to. I never could pretend, but if I had told them the truth (not that it was something that I did to them), they would’ve had to deal with it. And they taught me that it is not my place to break bad news that I myself do not have to deal with, especially when it seems like they should already know.
I appreciate when others break bad news to me, but I usually know it and excuse myself (break the deal) before they tell me.
It seems like you have over-generalized your experiences, because they don’t apply to me. But I do see how they do apply to some.
There was one time I took the whole summer to break the deal. I had false hope that I was wrong.
I miss the guy I thought he was. I’ll never not miss him. And that’s the truth.
I came to this thread searching for revolutionaries, insurrectionaries of the halcyon spirit… and instead, i find only the sick, infirm, destitute, and forsaken.
Malicious deception is saying this is an impossibility, at least on your part, even if you commit to it, because you’re tired of bullshit and you know what it’s like to have to deal with it.
Doubting it is a possibility on the part of the other is just understandable, if you trusted someone and had that trust broken. Especially more than once.
Dating women who are not involved with other men is less likely to get the statement “it was a mistake to be with you.” Unless she gave other reasons why it wouldn’t work out. Did your ego filter them out, or do you remember them?
I think, well I have this theory, that the person I miss selectively chose women who were in unhappy relationships as a sort of revenge against being cheated on, and because, if he starts his relationships out already being cheated on, it’s not his fault he got cheated on. Not that it would’ve been in the first place. It just hurts his ego less. He doesn’t think a successful relationship is possible, so he picks fruit that has already fallen and is being eaten by worms.
That or he was in a vulnerable place and did not have a lot of impulse control, and I’m lying to myself.
I told you to run. What are you doing here talking to me?