Another related question I’m trying to ask here is is life worth living if you do not have friends or a girlfriend or do not fit in with people even if you are around people but still you don’t fit in with them so you blend into the background ?
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No, that does not make you inferior at all.
But, deep down, you already knew this anyway right?
According to whom? Whats the point of reference and/or basis?
My emotions and what strangers say.
If I did I wouldn’t be questioning it.
Well, shouldnt you answer the question then if you are the standard for it?
You have to answer that yourself. Is it worth living - if life continues to be like this - to you? And since you are wondering whether your current life is worth living -.which to me means you are suffering and not experiencing what you want, that is a very challenging life.
In the other thread you talked about how you want a solution that is easy when I said that changing that life would like require going through some challenges. Nothing wrong with that desire. But you are going through challenges all the time right now, enough such that you question whether being alive is worth it.
Right now there’s no easy fix button that you know of. So, the choice may well be, at the moment, between your current suffering and improving things slowly through taking on some challenges and discomfort.
Note: when I say you have to answer that yourself, I’m not saying others won’t answer. Some may. But there isn’t an objective answer that matters, only your answer does. How would they even know what it’s like to be you?
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This.
The standard and answer is subjective to you in the first place.
How does it make sense to ask others about it?
Alternatively: You could say that society views a subject at large in a negative context. Or that it has negative implications.
But… thats not an argument. For anything. Society also likes to do tiktok challenges like tidepod eating and planking… i dont think i need to explain this any deeper than that.
I was homeless for almost fifteen years straight with no friends and no girlfriends.
Total isolation, seclusion, and alienation is a horrible place to be for anyone to endure like being forced into solitary confinement but that doesn’t make you inferior. Don’t allow others to tell you that you are.
Do not give up hope on yourself or in life, utilize this time of isolation bettering yourself and broadening your mental horizons in knowledge within study. It might seem like now that life will never get any better but eventually it does.
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So, how did you improve the situation or how did it improve and did that process entail facing specific challenges.
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The truth is that I only got out of all that by pure random luck and if it wasn’t for that luck of happenstance I would probably not be alive today. It was only the compassion or mercy of a stranger that I finally got out of it.
If I never met that person I truly believe I would not be alive today.
The situation in the United States is dire, homelessness once you’re in it is extremely hard to get out of. Certainly not impossible to get out of but pretty damn close.
Well, bless that person whoever they are. And I do know homelessness and many other things are extremely hard to get out of. You probably bear some of the responsibility for getting out. Some people can get help and it doesn’t stick.
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No. It doesn’t make you inferior. Just different. I am of that personality type, only I don’t get lonely. I have no friends, and I’m just fine with that. I am all the company I need. I used to try to be like everyone else when I was younger, but as I got older, I realized I didn’t need to. I’m fine like I am, and it’s not like I can change.
Nice, but then that’s not just luck. Some stranger offers you a job, house, car and a coach, that’s luck. And even then many would end up back on the streets. But you must have had qualities and skills that are worth something. Remember, women are capitalists. 
You must have something to with some regularity barter with to keep this going.
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I don’t say all women are sexual capitalists, just a majority instead.
A minority of very rare virtuous women like my wife are not mental slaves to their primitive instincts that have the ability of actually caring about men beyond economic financial materialism which in the case of my wife is why I love her so much.
Ultimately I would like to see modern men and women not be as divided as they are currently in relationships. It’s a long road of mutual understanding before that ever happens if it happens at all.