Why are you ‘trying to’ claim something that I did not do?
Now, why do ‘you’ disrespect people until they have done something that earns ‘your respect’?
Or, if ‘you’ did not mean that others have to earn ‘your respect’ before you ‘respect them’, then what does ‘respect is earned’ mean or refer to, exactly?
Please do not be afraid to be totally open and honest here.