I’d often fall for the trap of dismissing people from my life. I’d think all relations were dirty, insincere, weak and to be avoided. Only a fool could not see the objective. I would not be a slave, nor the victim of one.
But fool was I. And fool am I still. The integrity of relations, is on equal footing as will for integrity. One isn’t wise to dismiss, without emanation of the drive to do so. It’s all to the same end.
Well you are fool obviously, but this post is light on context? If you think about it dismissing experiences from your life that would make your ideas more cogent, is about as useful as slapping a nun in a church at Christmas mass just before midnight, and then running screaming from the building saying, she touched me, there, under my clothes. Whore! But then you kinda answered your own question so what is it you want to really ask?