Fine. First stab.
The will in alignment with category (of “one”: father, self=other) has to break the spirit … Not getting what you want is not necessarily consent violation.
But the spirit in alignment with the father is going to be a wild freaking ride when the will has conditioned it enough to trust it without controlling it. (& that’s how you get back the aesthetic stage, Kierkegaard)
What it looks like:
p.s. Thank you.