You work hard to achieve your goal, and once you achieve the goal you are exhausted, you are finished, the charm is lost for you. Working for it, building up all these tensions – that is all that you are interested in. When once you are there, it’s finished for you. You have lost it. So you start all over again.
You don’t want to be without any problems. You are yourself the problem. If you don’t have any problems, you create problems. The end of the problem is the end of you. So these problems will remain until the end. You go, then the problems go. Seventy, eighty, ninety, a hundred years – it depends upon how long you are going to live – so long the hope remains. It’s not a pessimistic situation, it is a realistic situation. I am not giving you any solutions. Look at your problem, if you can. You can’t separate yourself from the problem. The problem is created by the opposite of it.
Why do you feel unhappy, first of all? Why do you feel this feeling of unkindness in you? Because of the goal. It is that which creates the opposite. You can see for yourself, I don’t have to tell you. You are always thinking, “I should be like that, I ought to be that, I must be like that, and I am not that.” It is that thought that has created the opposite of it. If that is gone, this also is gone.
As long as you are pursuing those ideals that the society or the culture has placed before you, you will remain the opposite of it. And you hope that one day, through some miracle or through the help of somebody, some god, some guru, you will be able to resolve the problem – NOT A CHANCE!
You will look around and you will find that whatever is offered to you is not satisfying. If you are satisfied with the crumbs, all right. That’s what the gurus are doing, throwing some crumbs at you, like a dog on a leash. Humans are like animals, no different. If we accept the fact that we are not different, then there is a better chance that we will act as humans.
Man will act human when man ceases to pursue the goal of a perfect man.