For those of you who have ever loved or felt very intensely for someone, have you ever exprienced it again that is if you were no longer with the first person you felt for.
Has it ever been the same… that intensity of feeling or was it something 2nd rate in comparison to the first? Were you able to open yourself up as much as you did the first time or are we, due to hurt unable to open up as much as before?
May love even be compared?
Yes, been there 3 times.
It’s the same…why wouldn’t it be?
It is a biological reaction induced chemically, not some magic ride over the rainbow.
I have
heeheehee sad but true 
Having never experienced a love greater than your first, you would believe it to be impossible to match. This could be true, but if you were to ever find someone that was better than your first love, it would of course top the last.
The answer you seek is obvious. All that is needed to top the last lover, is a better lover.
It’s as easy or as hard as finding a better person you love more.