Maybe the answer’s in the bottom of a bottle.
A bottle of whoop ass!
Let’s dig deeper.
Why is this? Many poor peole are loved by their daughters, and so far it sounds like it’s really you that burns inside at other people having stuff.
Why does she have a low opinion of you as a father?
…answer is if you are Mary Poppins’ daddy.
The dude hates everything, hates himself, is a poison spitting machine, but we are assuming the girl is wrong headed somehow?
What was that childhood like?
…they should both make a rap about it together, where they rap battle each other.
Or a Chinese triad. Triadic triangle. Venn something. What was it?
I need 50 bucks, Ichtus.
I only got 50 bucks for Schmupiter and he’s gone, so.
No but seriously.
It’s manic depression. He’s in the depressive stage. It won’t last. He needs to be self-balancing, and remind himself in all the highs and lows that they don’t last, and refuse to go high/low with them in an irrational manner. He needs a list of baseline facts about his reality that keep him grounded regardless the highs and the lows. Positive things that bring him out of depression, and grounding things that keep him from going too high. He needs a stable constant. He needs to be that for himself as a model for his kids who can also be that for themselves and their kids… rippling out into the world that needs that. And if he accepts that, he will accept the only source of it in reality, and draw from that source. But if he rejects it, no amount of money you throw at it is going to fix anything. You’d be throwing money down a black hole.
Is that what it is?
Sitting there in his empty home, burning with spite and hate, hating himself but still nevertheless considering himself a fountain of righteousness (is righteousness then an attribute of shitty people? How does that vork?), transmitting who knows what to creatures that never asked to be born, writing about it on the internet.
Something about it doesn’t click. Something is fucked up about this individual.
Why did the woman leave him? What is the fucking story here?
I guess the girl lives with him? The boy doesn’t? So it’s easier for the boy not to hate him?
She’s studying to be a firefighter? What fire does she want to put out? What emergency does she want to stop? Who does she want to save?
Something, man.
Does, on top of it all, the girl wonder if she will find his brains on the coat hanger one day when she comes home from fire fighting class?
They are leveling meds, so you need them the entire time, especially if you’re not going to figure out how to self-balance—and by that I don’t mean getting married for the tax breaks and having short-term fun with hotties. Think about what you’re teaching both your son and your daughter…if they even exist and this isn’t a hypothetical thought experiment.
There is no answer here as there is no question to begin with. Your entire sentiment and ignorance in this thread is telling more of issues of character that you seem to have as opposed to anything about me.
… and if it was, the reactions from all of you only shows the signs of the times, how low and corrupt society has become.
Eloquently written and agreed by, (I should imagine) many.
You are definitely the boss and expert of your own life, regardless how it affects those who are in it, who can leave at will when it is their choice, and will.
I wonder what would be the motivation behind flattering this dude? Are you trying to get him to self explode his life so that you can have control of it?
Thank you for the opportunity to clarify myself and reflect. It is not that we are poor, it is that I haven’t done what many other fathers have done in the affluential areas that we reside in, as such, she compares to. I do not blame her for that. She does not have a “low opinion:” of me as a father, just that it isn’t as high of an opinion as my sons. I haven’t saved up for college for her, I haven’t been able to get her a car. Also, people having stuff does not burn me inside at all. I do not care about people having stuff, at all.
