In the context of another thread, I had an epiphany of a directive to all people:
The truest joy in life is to receive reward without acting the devious side; without guile…
If you cannot get rewards for this, and try as hard as you can…
Then you have discovered the bare truth, that life is not worth living…
So put this test to yourself and truly live; to do otherwise is to not actually embrace life.
This is the Nice Guy Syndrome. You want to manipulate without actually manipulating. It’s the other side of the Bad Boy Syndrome. Bad boys are honest about their manipulation. Nice guys are not.
What gives you away is your desire to be rewarded. You expect to be rewarded for being a nice guy . . .
Nice guy syndrome is defined by a man misrepresenting that he only wants to be friends, which I never do. And let’s be realistic about this, only 1% of men get most the sex… Who’s propoganda are you going to believe.
This is like the term “pity sex”. Men don’t have such a thing as pity sex.
You’re a woman through and through. You talk like a woman …
It’s funny until you realize that the suicide ratio is 10:1 and more men commit suicide than all the deaths from war, homicide and FEMALE suicide combined. Then it’s not funny anymore.
Women and the men who are sexually blackmailed by them have actually termed “nice guys don’t finish” to a syndrome.
Do you have any clue how easy it is for me to get laid???
True of many but certainly not all, dependent on how primitive.
Let me put it to you this way Magnus, you will stand before me in judgement some day, and you will wish you had never been born.
You will live my life someday… I have lived all your lives, so I already know how this comes down.
The definition of Nice Guy Syndrome is far broader than you make it to be. You are narrowing it down in order to escape it.
Nice guys are men who try to manipulate women into falling in love with them by acting nice.
We say they are entitled because they are incapable of transcending expectations. They expect to be rewarded for everything they do.
They consider life meaningful so as long it rewards them or promises to reward them at some future point in time, and they consider it meaningless the moment it stops rewarding them and promising them future rewards.
You said it yourself. You said that life is not worth living if you cannot be rewarded for being nice.
You are a Nice Guy through and through.
You are one of those send someone to hell forever for good behavior guys…
Wait until you stand before me in judgement.
Magnus, when you see what you all do to yourselves after you live my life, you would tremble at the posts you make. To triumph over me for a pussy is to send yourself to hell, the women are already there, and there’s no sex there. So keep practicing the body of universalism with this mind.
In judgement I stand redeemed.
I’m going to explain something to you Magnus, and you may not understand this.
The body of truth is what endures.
After we die, we live everyone’s lives in the body of truth, and then we judge ourselves in truth.
There is no padding between us and truth, for you only stand with yourself after all this, and you judge yourself.
There is no creator for this, this is just how life works.
I’ve already died and been resurrected multiple times, and this has given me great insight to life.
James knows more about this stuff than you do…
He is less mundane than you, and you prop yourself as the universal spirit, you are far from this, and you will judge yourself for it.
Even I have trouble in this realm, and you really are young with these thoughts relative to me, passion to make everyone like you without understanding the body of truth burden.
Like, this is epic. You guys would make a great final fantasy boss fight, like the pre-game talk where they talk about philosophy, like on Metal Gear before a battle. Ecmandu, you have to make your avatar more videogameish, like Magnus.
Okay, jokes aside, what do you mean by this multiple lives thing? Are we talkin billions, or dozens? I dont wish to live (or have lived) through billions of people’s miserable lives.
Trixie, many people have said this… I’m not the first person to say it. What happens is you get to experience and feel how you made others feel. It happens almost instantly.
Id rather not, also this is another one of your threads where you make statements with zero evidence behind them
Also, i hardly interact with anyone, the people i do interact with are dicks to me and then i never see them anymore, so I shouldnt feel obliged to live out their saga.
Your theory is that all of the people who were mean to me, are Me now, so they can experience it firsthand. Now that theory is NOT justice and rubbish, number 1 it is unethical to punish someone for crimes they cannot remember, nor did not do. You are punishing me doubly, with double whammy, not only do I have to suffer for this, but now I have to suffer for their crimes on me, as well as suffering their crimes! Ridiculous rubbish.
You interact with everyone.
It facilitates understanding…
There is a thesis and antithesis sometimes one wins over the others, sometimes it is a synthesis.
I’m just telling you what I saw, you can judge how you see fit. You don’t take on their crimes. You judge yourself.
It facilitates hell and misery.
You said that if you are mean to someone you have to live out their lives.
So, all the people who are mean to me, are Me now, except they aren’t really Me, because I am Me, and I don’t remember being them, so it’s all bullshit. I am suffering for some shit I didn’t even do, and on top of it, I have to suffer more because of some random assholes I never wanted to be who did things that I don’t want them to do. Fuck this.
It’s not like that…
You experience how you made others experience and feel so fast, it’s like you barely notice it, but it changes your spirit immeasurably, and through a synthesis of your own being, you judge yourself from all this information, it is better than democracy.
Thank God I don’t have to live out their shitty lives, then.
This is like eavesdropping on a group of spotty adolescents (I think you call them “nerds” in the US).
Spotty adolescents eh? Wait until you enter realms where all those spots are planets and if you squeeze one you destroy billions of people, and if you don’t squeeze the right one, you destroy them all…
Some call these realms “god realms”, you’ll be quite fortunate if you never enter one !!
I’m certainly not being a gossipy adolescent to this regard.