Ecmandu: It’s worse than that.
A child who has no clue electricity even exists may stick some metal object in a live electrical outlet thinking it’s the best choice. And that child dies not having fun. Once the connection is made, the child cannot resist the force of the current to pull their hand off the fork until it is dead.
What I’m trying to explain in simple terms here is that differences in understanding reality make this whole discussion absurd.
Even if I explained to an older child that electricity exists and that’s a bad idea, they may decide not to trust me and may test it anyways - thinking I’m lying or trying to trick them.
There are so many instances where someone knows something someone else doesn’t that this argument about best options is absurd.
As they say… hindsight is 20/20
The problem with PG is she thinks foresight is 20/20.
And that’s very easy to refute and disprove.
Peacegirl: Foresight is possible when it comes to predicting that no one, under the changed conditions, of a no blame environment (along with other changes in the economic system) could justify striking a first blow of hurt to another when NOT to is the better choice in the direction of satisfaction.
Ecmandu: PG doesn’t take learning curves into account, and by that doesn’t take into account that most choices people make are completely idiotic.
Peacegirl: The choices people make are based on their particular circumstances, not yours!
Ecmandu: Your argument is that people always make the best choices. This is easy to disprove.
You’re totally avoiding that most adults (unless they’re trying to commit suicide) would never stick a metal thing in a live electrical outlet.
So now it’s not an issue of choice; it’s an issue of ignorance.
Given that the learning curve is so high, almost everyone does everything out of ignorance.
People with less wisdom think the best choice for them ends up being the worst choice for someone much wiser.
Your entire book rests upon the idea that people always move towards the best option.
Ignorance disproves that.
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Ecmandu: PG.
I want to add to this post.
I meant to say:
The best choice for THEM
The best option for THEM
This is all about how they feel for what they know.
Ignorance completely obliterates your argument.
Peacegirl: It does no such thing. We base our choices on what we know or believe in the moment. If someone moves toward satisfaction in saving a drowning person not knowing if there are sharks in the water, his ignorance at that moment is not under his consideration. His only thought is to save that person. If he gets bitten and loses his leg in the process, does that mean his ignorance about the shark obliterates his desire to save this person in the direction of greater satisfaction? No way! Maybe if he had known about the shark he may have hesitated, but that is not here nor there… after the fact.
Ecmandu: At the level of ignorance … it’s all statistics, lottery…
Nothing cogent.
Peacegirl: I agree, Some is luck. Why were we saved in a train accident and the person next to us was not. There are unforeseen variables that may come into play, good and bad. We make choices based on the info at our disposal.
Ecmandu: If a 70 year adult doesn’t know about electricity and sticks something metal in a live outlet… just because they think it’s a fun game (their best option)
They’re dead, and die a horrible death.
Peacegirl: Yes they do. Hopefully they aren’t suicidal and have learned not to do this at an early age.
Ecmandu: Ignorance disproves your entire book.
Peacegirl: Not in the slightest. We are constantly looking back in hindsight to make better choices if the choices that were made turned out differently than we wanted. Each moment offers us a new set of options based on new information as to what choice to make when a similar situation presents itself. It’s as simple as that. You yourself said you’re a different person as you got older and understood things better, or figured out a way to protect yourself. That’s growth!