Most people take things for granted, a lot of things. This is probably usually because it takes less effort to treat something as a given/assumed than to continually evaluate and “will” it, but over time this leads to passive valuing being the dominant psychological mode. And when you take something for granted you de-power it to some extent; you weaken its ability to exist as it is, in that way that you value it.
To actively value something would rather be to engage with it frequently, to not take it for granted; this requires that we assert our values and will our values rather than merely act on them. A greater consciousness is needed, which is why it takes more energy than does passive valuing.
It cannot be over-estimated the extent to which philosophy is the salvation of mankind. Well yes, it can be over-estimated but only by evoking unnecessary or early-stage errors “late in the game”; none of that has anything to do with philosophy itself, not really. But philosophy can heal this problem of passive valuing, and more philosophically-minded people, often without any formal training or exposure to philosophy itself, always have more active valuing. This is based on my own observations over a long time, and also based on rational observation of the logical issues themselves. I can see no exceptions for this rule.
“Active valuing” might just be called “philosophy”, and vice-versa.
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Personality enters into this because personality represents a strength for reality in the midst of reality’s many sufferings and errors. Personality is one manifestation/aspect of active valuing, and the relative lack of personality is an manifestation/aspect of passive valuing. Check it out, you can see this in the people around you, those people in your life. Watch and see how they are with things. This is very easy to grasp.
In the case of the seeming “withdrawn/introverted” personality type, which at first appears as a weakness or passivity, take a closer look; you might find what Nietzsche was speaking about when he wrote, “You have a heart, but you are afraid to show it; you are ashamed of your flood, while others are ashamed of their ebb”. Also, every personality is some mixture of weaknesses and strengths, particular relations and causality patterns/heuristics. The issue isn’t a black and white strength or no strength, the issue is more dimensional than that, it involves a ratio of strengths to weaknesses and a qualitative kinds of comparative regions-terrains between these, carved out of the psychic reality to produce an ‘assemblage of ends’, to speak with Deleuze and Guattari.